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I just posted my drawings for a cover. I kind of want advice and I thought why not ask. I do not get asked out a lot and I learned guys just don’t like me but when they do like me it is like they don’t expect to have real feelings but then they do and that freaks them out ( one said that to me in an apology for disappearing). I just want to know is it me? Am I ugly or intimidating ? I don’t understand why it is always I want to be with you but I’m not ready. I feel like it is me? Do I just attract cowards? Idk

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... Read moreIn today’s evolving dating landscape, many individuals grapple with feelings of self-doubt and the complexities of emotional relationships. It’s common to question one’s attractiveness or compatibility while experiencing a disconnect between romantic intentions and emotional readiness. Many people find that they attract partners who exhibit mixed signals—expressing interest but then withdrawing or claiming they are not ready for a deeper commitment. This phenomenon can lead to feelings of inadequacy, wondering if their appearance or demeanor is unappealing or intimidating. In reality, dating can often feel like a minefield of emotions, where fears and insecurities influence both parties. Understanding this can shed light on personal experiences and provide comfort to those feeling alone in their struggles. It's essential to foster communication and seek clarity from partners rather than internalizing the fears of rejection. Engaging in open dialogues about intentions, feelings, and expectations can create a healthier approach to understanding relationship dynamics. Many find that talking through experiences with friends or seeking advice on platforms like Lemon8 can provide valuable perspectives and support. Ultimately, building self-confidence and awareness of one's value can empower individuals to navigate relationships more effectively, reducing feelings of self-doubt and promoting healthier connections.

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no girl! never think that way! you’re perfect just the way you are, and one day you’ll find the perfect guy for you! keep making those amazing illustrations, the other people don’t know what they’re talking about!

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