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Life in your 30’s

Living in my 30’s I thought would be the height of doing everything I wanted to do at a younger age. Settling in at the age of 31. I’m starting to realize this era isn’t all what it’s made out to be.

Becoming older means becoming wiser, with wisdom comes true accountability, self reflection, self awareness. It’s deconstruction of who you use to be to improvement of you are becoming. It’s the gratitude not only for life but for your family and friends. It’s the moment of realizing everybody that use to be with you in your 20’s may not make it with you to your 30’s.

It’s the art of letting go, it’s the love of making new, it’s the excitement of meeting new people and the disappointment of ghosting stages. It’s the familiar feeling of someone walking back into your life after a hiatus and the joy of picking up friendship right where it was left off. It’s the opportunity to continue to grow but this time not to just be a flower, but to be a full garden.

#embracingmy30s #christianwomen #selflove

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