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Money is no big deal...But very important

If someone has already talked..Before dating, finish reading

Red Flags about money in relationships.

To know before serious dating

1️⃣ "no money," but there's a new iPhone every year.

This one is not until... this one "runs a bad life."

2️⃣ said, "Love each other, don't think about money."

Most people say this sentence are waiting to spend your money.

3️⃣ salary out = out in 3 days

The rest of the month is "take hope and credit cards."

4️⃣ never talk about debt.

No, no... but "dare not tell."

5️⃣ like to show rich, but never have real money.

Life is addicted to luxury, but the future is negative.

6️⃣ borrowed money habitually.

Some nights, not some nights = Test "How stupid are you?"

7️⃣ plan the future together... but never plan the finances.

Love only is not enough. If there is no tomorrow

8️⃣ take poverty as an excuse for laziness.

Not guilty, but "not trying" is the problem.

9️⃣ more jealous of your money than worried about you.

You spend money on yourself = have a problem.

But he used your money = normal.

🔟 said, "I'll get better" for three years.

The future is not a word... it is a repeated behavior.

Non-dramatic summary:

Love that doesn't talk about money in the first place.

Not romantic...

It's a 100% "time bomb" waiting for the day to break.

If you have to choose...

Don't choose someone who "spends money well."

Choose someone who is "responsible for money."

Because finally,

Love May Make You Smile

But "debt" will make you sleepless, believe me. 🖤

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