🚩IS GOD’S WAY EVER A*USIVE⁉️

In my experience as a psychologist, I’ve seen many cases where the concept of divine authority is manipulated to justify abusive behavior, especially within religious or spiritual communities. The case of TD McNutt is a striking example of how leaders or authority figures can use their titles or perceived divine sanction to bypass normal boundaries and control others, especially vulnerable children. From what I’ve observed and studied, this type of behavior often involves what’s called the Omnipotent Defense — where an abuser cloaks their actions in the name of God or a higher power to silence victims and avoid accountability. It's a powerful psychological tool for maintaining control, creating fear, and inducing shame. Victims, particularly children, may not understand that what they're experiencing is abuse; instead, they may be taught that harsh punishment or physical marks on their body represent discipline sanctioned by God. The disturbing OCR-recognized evidence from the McNutt case — such as bruising consistent with being hit by a belt and visible injuries meant to be hidden under clothing — highlights the physical manifestations of such spiritual abuse. These injuries are not isolated incidents but suggest a pattern of harmful behavior justified as 'God’s way.' What compounds the abuse psychologically is the use of gaslighting and triangulation. Victims are made to feel they somehow deserve the punishment or that others around them do not believe them because the abuser portrays themselves as a righteous figure guided by divine love. This double bind traps the victim in an emotional and spiritual dilemma — they are punished yet told they are loved, creating confusion and deep emotional scars. If you or someone you know is in a situation where religious or spiritual leadership is being used to intimidate, control, or cause harm, it’s important to seek help from trusted professionals and support networks. Recognizing the signs of spiritual abuse is the first step to breaking free from its grip. True discipline never results in physical harm or coercion; it builds respect and growth. Sharing experiences and raising awareness about how spiritual authority can be weaponized helps to protect vulnerable individuals and foster communities where faith uplifts rather than harms. Remember, God’s way is not abuse — it is love, respect, and healing.