👀 “When did hating kids become a trend?”

#lemon8contest #AskLemon8 #kidslife #kidssafety #foryou

Unpopular opinion: 🗣️ “Hot take: Disrespecting kids online isn’t a personality trait.”

I haven’t really seen many people talk about this, but I feel like we’ve become way too comfortable talking negatively about other people’s kids online. From disrespectful comments in the comment section to disturbing videos of children being harmed—with people actually saying things like, “That’s what they get” or “Maybe they’ll learn their lesson.”

It genuinely baffles me. Every adult was once a child. The plain hatred and open disdain for children online is honestly scary. I’ve even seen people announce pregnancies and get bombarded with comments like, “Abort it,” or “You’re making a mistake.”

What’s even more disturbing is that a lot of these comments are coming from young women. Look—no one’s saying you have to like kids or want your own, but to say things like that about someone else’s child—or to another woman—just feels wrong. These kids can’t even defend themselves. It’s disgusting.

What do you think?

2025/6/27 Edited to

... Read moreIn recent years, social media has transformed the way we communicate and express opinions. While platforms can facilitate connection and positivity, they have also become breeding grounds for negativity, particularly against vulnerable groups like children. The phenomenon of hating on kids reflects a larger issue of conformity and societal pressure, where individuals feel empowered to express hateful opinions under the veil of anonymity. The question arises: why do we see a surge in disdain for children online? Some experts suggest that it stems from a broader cultural shift where parenting and motherhood are often scrutinized, leading to aggressive comments directed at pregnant women and new parents. The increase in online comments such as “Abort it” or “You’re making a mistake” showcases the disturbing lack of empathy available in spaces that should be supportive. This issue isn’t isolated to one demographic; both young women and men participate in this phenomenon, contributing to an atmosphere that overlooks the well-being of innocent children. Additionally, the normalization of sharing ‘hot takes’ or unpopular opinions on platforms often dulls the sensitivity needed when discussing children—individuals incapable of defending themselves. Disrespect towards kids is a reflection of deeper cultural issues, including anxiety around parenting, societal rejection of traditional family values, and the overwhelming fear of judgment. As we delve into this topic, it’s crucial to raise awareness and challenge these trends. Instead of perpetuating negativity, we can promote a culture of kindness and support. Encouraging respectful dialogue, particularly regarding parenting and children, will serve to foster a more nurturing online environment where compassion prevails. The aim must be to empower parents and children alike rather than tear them down. We should aim to protect children from the harsh realities of online interactions, advocating for a change in narrative—one that does not tolerate disdain but embraces positivity and kindness towards the youngest members of our society. In doing so, we not only serve those affected but also uphold the integrity of online communities everywhere.

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Thank you!! It’s scary raising kids in a world where kids are so hated. I’m so thankful for my community where everywhere I take my little ones, they are loved on. It’s so sad to see the online world turned so against and care so little for these little ones.

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I agree whole heartily! It’s one thing to not want to have kids and another to go out of your way to bash kids online. Like it’s almost an obsession for some of these people to hate on kids. It’s deranged behavior.

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