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🎒 How to leave the "good boy frame" 💬

🍽️ Two years ago, we had a union appointment with nearly 20 high school friends.

While they were eating, they updated their lives, and it turned out that of all, the best people in their lives were those who failed regular school exams, the ones that teachers never expected, and they didn't even see the future.

Now my friends are very happy with the job, have a job that matches their own aptitude, salary is a hundred thousand, flexible life schedule, have money to take care of themselves until beautiful.

💭, when you look carefully, you see that many friends in our lives are like this: when you were not good at school, but now progress, there are many opportunities.

While good friends are good at being quiet in small circles, growing slower, getting fewer new opportunities.

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🥦, we analyzed and researched this story to realize that there is a principle: "the good student trap," the trap of the good child.

Listening to that friend's path before coming to the present life makes us see that many of the things that he did we didn't even dare to do in the first place, and these things finally brought him to this point.

So the different variable is "courage."

We think there are many opportunities in the air nowadays, whether we are brave enough to step out and grab it, if we can adjust our mindset to be brave, life will definitely go a long way. ✌🏻

# Working age # Working life # Develop yourself # Self-improvement psychology # Lemon 8 Howtoo

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