Sweet things my LD partner says
Okay let’s be FUCKKKING FOR REAL! #Lemon8Diary #longdistancerelationship Long distance is hard. You want to have that physical intimacy ( no that doesn’t always mean sex) with your partner but obviously they’re far away. It’s important to have someone that communicates, reassures you, checks in, has emotional intelligence and does their best to make themselves feel present in your life because again LONG DISTANCE IS HARD YALL! Lmaooo.
I’ve always done long distance, not by choice but my partners just happen to always live somewhere else so I’m used to this BUT this is the first person who has actually made themselves always feel present. He listens to me, he asks me if I’m okay with something before doing it. Even when he goes out he send me pics ( not that I’m asking for him to) and texts showing me he’s having fun and will hit me up later. Even if we don’t speak for a day because he needs space he lets me know he’ll be away!
I trust him and vice versa because we just click so well lol the reciprocation is mad! His friends even ask if we argue and we’re like no??? 😂 of course I know at some point we will though.
QUESTION: Have you done or are you in a long distance relationship? How is going or how did it go? What was the hardest part for you? #distancerelationship
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