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Some men will choose a life of solitude because they have been so hurt in the past. Naturally, after trying so hard we think it’s easier to close ourselves up. To never be open to love again. These men will require reassurance and patience as they learn to trust someone again. But when they do, t

This is not an EXCUSE…this is simply one level of UNDERSTANDING. When we understand certain things we can use them as accurate tools of prevention. Apart from nervous system regulation, there are a few other things that instigate self destruction: 1. Identity loss - inability to latch on to

For many high performing men, they constantly have to be in fight or flight. The extreme world of performance calls for a release not many can understand - the release not even being sexual, but spiritual. A balance only feminine energy can bring, when the masculine is at such a high rate to perfor

The thing about doing things that are frowned upon is that..they’re frowned upon. But if shaming made it any easier to quit, it would have worked by now. Most individuals don’t need more tactics on how to escape, they need more understanding of how something started in the first place. Once

Sometimes we can become so consumed and in love with someone we try to be the perfect person. All the while they’re aren’t appreciating or reciprocating the love. The more time we waste with people who don’t work for us, the less time we get with those that do. 👉Just a disclaimer 👉 Not EVERY man

For men, a huge turning point starts happening when the external achievements start to fall away, or decrease. For years, he has been using these things as a way to hide from the problems he does not know how to solve. Now that the external achievements are no longer there, he has no choice but to

When you’re man who is a high-performer and has higher level of intellect, being bored is not a relief - it’s a danger. Men who are active need constant stimulation. If the stimulation isn’t being driven by goals, it’s going to be driven by problems. Without problems to solve, problems will be c

A huge turning point for a “nice guy” will be to realize that he actually isn’t so “nice.” A nice guy will typically be a people, pleaser, have lack of boundaries, and take on too many responsibilities as a form of trying to get what he wants because he is too afraid to create conflict by asking f

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You can’t hurt someone who is nothing but sweet to you and not expect to have a cursed life. 🤷🏼‍♀️ #mensmentalhealth #menscoach #celebritycoach #highperforming #mentalhealth

Your best bet is to save your breath. They will not change, they do not care. And Yes..they know what they’ve done. Elise #mensmentalhealth #menscoach #celebritycoach #highperforming #mentalhealth

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If the sacrifice for keeping someone else afloat is a hole in your boat, you don’t actually do any good. 💔 #mensmentalhealth #mensmentalhealthawareness #mensmentalhealthmatters #selfcaredaily #menscoach #elisemicheals

If you ask any man with a financial glow-up story, they almost always have a “fumbled the girl” story. It’s the same pattern every time. They struggle financially, become insecure, and push her away despite her relentless support. When he finally gains stability again it’s too late. She’s moved

Men often spend around 40 years building a life they think they’re supposed to love before they realize they don’t. Then they are faced with the decision of giving it up and losing everything, or keeping everything but losing themselves. It’s not easy to be a man who seeks growth. Know that if a

Men will fight to the death for the people they love. But at a certain point, if he feels it’s not being reciprocated, he will simply STOP fighting. No anger. No walking away. No bickering. The epitome of a man who has given up is a quiet man. He needs to know someone is fighting WITH him, not AG