From personal experience, dealing with judgmental comments from a partner's friends can be tricky. Often, it feels like those close to your partner might not fully understand or appreciate your relationship, leading to uncomfortable or hurtful remarks like "you’re too sweet" or "it’s too much." One useful approach I’ve found is open communication. Just as in the chisme mentioned involving Deku and friends, talking directly to your partner about how those comments affect you can help. Sometimes, partners might not realize the impact these comments have or might feel caught between friends and their relationship. Another helpful tip is setting gentle but clear boundaries with those friends. If a friend frequently judges the relationship, a respectful conversation can sometimes resolve misunderstandings or at least establish that such judgments aren't welcome. If tensions persist, focusing on strengthening your connection with your partner is key. When the bond is strong and based on trust and understanding, outside opinions matter less. Sharing similar experiences in fandom communities, like #kirideku and #bakudeku, often helps, as we find common ground and advice from others who’ve dealt with the same “chismes.” Ultimately, embracing the humor in these situations—as celebrated in fan discussions and chisme therapy—can turn an annoying experience into a moment of bonding and growth, both with your partner and your community. Don’t forget to like and comment your own ‘chismes’ to keep the therapy going!