Cocktail mami🍸🪩

116 followers

Follow

Follow

Follow

0 saved

2

10

Parenting the next day was not it

#parents #datenight #barhoping

2025/1/8 Edited to

Parenting can be an exhilarating yet exhausting journey, especially after a night filled with dinner drinks and bar hopping. Many parents can relate to waking up groggy after a fun night, only to face the responsibilities of child care. It's essential to find a balance between enjoying adult moments and fulfilling parenting duties. Prepare for the inevitable challenges by planning a smooth recovery day. This may include setting aside engaging activities for your kids, enlisting help from family or friends, or even allowing yourself a guilt-free nap when the kids are entertained. Consider prepping light meals in advance or planning fun, low-energy family activities to ease the transition back into parenting. Discussing nights out with your partner can also lead to better teamwork, ensuring that both parents feel supported and ready to tackle the day—with a little humor and understanding. Embracing these moments and sharing them with the parenting community can provide both camaraderie and reassurance that you’re not alone in your struggles.

Related posts

Your kid doesn’t need privacy. They need parenting

They call it “gentle parenting” now. But what I see… is moms scared to upset their kids. Afraid to say no. Afraid to check the phone. Afraid to be the bad guy. I check the tablet. I open the apps. I watch the videos. I watch the games. I will check his future phone. I will check the DMs.

1690 likes

Gentle Parenting: How to Connect Through the Chaos

Sometimes the hardest moments are the ones that connect us the most. This is what gentle parenting actually looks like—it’s messy, it’s mindful, and it’s full of emotion. #GentleParenting #MindfulParenting #PeacefulParenting #PositiveParenting #ParentingTips

1042 likes

A hand holds a stack of books, with the title overlay "Books That Have Deeply Impacted My Parenting Journey" in red and white text. The background is a light-colored tiled floor.

The book cover for "The Whole-Brain Child" is prominently displayed, featuring a white silhouette of a child's head on a blue background. An overlay states, "Helped me understand the 'why' behind my child's meltdowns."

The book cover for "Good Inside" by Dr. Becky Kennedy is shown, featuring yellow text with small figures on a bright yellow background. An overlay reads, "Taught me that my child isn't being 'bad' — they're having a hard time."

5 Books That Have Deeply Impacted My Parenting

Motherhood doesn’t come with a manual… but these books came close. When I needed guidance, grace, and a new perspective, these reads helped me shift from reacting to responding, from control to connection. They didn’t just teach me how to parent — they taught me how to grow. ⸻ ✨ 1. The Who

2073 likes

5 Tips for Parenting Resilient Kids

Raising resilient kids isn’t about tough love. It’s about teaching emotional strength inside a safe connection. Resilience doesn’t come from never falling apart. It comes from knowing that when things fall apart, someone will be there to help you put them back together. Let them struggle a l

701 likes

A visual guide titled "How to create a PERFECT TOOL FOR KIDS WITH ADHD" featuring an interactive morning routine chart for "Isaiah's Morning Routine" with tasks like brushing teeth and eating breakfast, each with an image and a blank square.

A morning routine chart for "Isaiah's Morning Routine" with several tasks completed, showing folded flaps revealing "DONE" and corresponding emojis, demonstrating how the chart is used to mark off completed activities.

An interactive morning routine chart for "Isaiah's Morning Routine" with all task flaps folded down, revealing "DONE" messages accompanied by various fun emojis, illustrating the completed state of the chart.

Parenting hack: Perfect charts for kids with ADHD🌸

✨I’ve been using this technique for about a while now and it works great for my mini adhder. I don’t have to repeat things ten times before they do them, instead i just ask if they’ve completed their morning or night routine. ✨He responds so much better to the visual chart that’s also interacti

827 likes

Parenting in 2006 vs 2026

4378 likes

A mother wearing a beanie smiles while carrying her baby in a carrier, who also wears a beanie. The image has a text overlay that reads '777 Parenting Rules', serving as the title card for the article.

Hands, likely a parent's and child's, rest on a wooden surface. Text outlines '7 Days Planning/Prepping' activities, including meal planning, scheduling, preparing outfits, creating to-do lists, and reviewing family schedules.

A person wearing a beanie looks relaxed in a cozy setting. Text lists '7 Minutes Of Solo Time' activities such as deep breathing, meditation, social media, warm baths, coffee/tea, and quick home workouts.

777 parenting rule

hello ◡̈ 🤎 7 Days Planning/Preparation! Invest time each week to plan and prepare for the upcoming days. I’m not saying to plan for 7 days but plan FOR the next 7 days. By planning ahead, you can reduce stress, save time, and feel more in control of your parenting responsibilities. Sunday is a

25 likes

Parenting advice that has changed me

Parenting feels like a constant mix of learning, unlearning, and being reminded of what actually matters. These are the words I keep coming back to. #parentingadvice #parentingtips #parenting #momtips #momadvice

223 likes

The One ADHD Parenting Book Every Mom Should Read

Just got this book after my child was EVALUATED FOR ADHD—and mamas, it’s already changing everything. If you’re overwhelmed, second-guessing yourself, or unsure where to start… Mindful Parenting for ADHD gives you real, practical support. This is the book I wish I had months ago. 📖 It’s not a

73 likes

Parenting Propaganda I’m Not Falling For

Tired of all the parenting “rules” that make you feel like you’re doing it wrong? Same here. From the classic “sleep when the baby sleeps” to the guilt-tripping “you’ll miss this someday” this is your reminder that not all advice is helpful… or even true. This is the parenting propaganda I’m not

1371 likes

A child in a library reaching for a book on a high shelf, with text overlayed: 'PARENTING ADHD KIDS AS A CHRONICALLY OVERWHELMED NEURODIVERGENT'.

A child with curly hair looking into a wooden pen, with text overlayed: 'IT'S A CATCH 22 I'M NOT GOOD AT IMPLEMENTING SYSTEMS, YET WE ALL REQUIRE THEM TO FUNCTION.'.

A child sitting in a pumpkin patch, holding a cup, with text overlayed: 'ANOTHER CATCH 22 MY EMOTIONAL REGULATION IS NOT ALWAYS WHAT IT SHOULD BE, YET I'M TRYING TO TEACH THEM HOW TO REGULATE.'.

Parenting as an autistic ADHDer

Some might say, "if you're so overwhelmed, why did you have kids in the first place?" And truthfully? I had no idea I was autistic or ADHD before having children. How was I supposed to know I would be in a chronic state of overwhelm every day? And besides that, parents are allowed to

21 likes

Parenting things I swore I would NEVER do

I made a lot of decisions prior to becoming a mom five years ago and it’s crazy to see what I stuck with and what I haven’t but I stand by every decision I have made for my kids. Let me know if you agree or disagree with my parenting in the comments 🤍 #parentingrealities #parenting #kids

372 likes

New age parenting !!

Listen! So my daughter had a not so great day at school and my first response was to fuss and discipline. I had to pause, breathe, and take a step back. When I looked at her I could tell she was already defeated. So we talked about it, explored how it could be handled better next time, and moved on

14 likes

The image introduces "Cycle-breaking parenting" as a hard but important choice. It promises to explain what it means and its costs, encouraging users to swipe, especially if they weren't parented as they wish to parent. The background is a pink gradient.

This image defines cycle-breaking as choosing differently, even when harder. It emphasizes noticing inherited patterns, not blaming parents, and highlights it as generational work where healing oneself benefits the child. The background is a purple gradient.

The image illustrates what quiet cycles look like, such as emotional shutdown, raising one's voice, difficulty showing affection, or feeling suffocated by a child's needs. It states that recognizing these patterns is the first step to breaking them. The background is a purple gradient.

What Cycle Breaking Parenting Really Means

Nobody explains what cycle-breaking parenting actually costs. It sounds like a powerful, hopeful thing and it is. But it also means sitting with grief for what you did not receive. Feeling the weight of patterns you did not choose. Doing things differently in moments when every nerve in your

4 likes

An infographic titled "10 Parenting Shortcuts That Backfire Over Time," listing common parenting practices like doing things for children, using rewards, and over-explaining, with explanations of how each can hinder a child's long-term growth and skill development.

Parenting shortcuts

#parentsdobetter #parents #parenting #parentingadvice

5 likes

Parenting Propaganda my toddler is not falling for

My last attempt at this made little sense because I was half asleep and too excited about doing the prompt lol so here’s my second go! My daughter is suuuuuuuper opinionated and so I thought this would be a fun one to do with her. I am also considering doing one for my oldest! #parents #pare

267 likes

A child's legs in a shopping cart, pushed by an adult in a pink jacket, in a grocery store aisle. Overlay text reads "Traditional Parenting with a Gentle Twist," introducing the article's theme.

A child in a white hat on a swing in a grassy park. Overlay text contrasts "Because I said so" with "Let me explain why," emphasizing building trust and reasoning skills in parenting.

A child in a white hat and floral jacket stands on grass, viewed from behind. Overlay text explains the shift from "Time-outs" to "Time-ins," advocating for sitting with children through big feelings.

5 Gentle Parenting Upgrades to Classic Rules

I was raised with love, structure, and rules — but I’m learning there’s space to evolve. Traditional parenting gave us resilience, but gentle parenting adds emotional fluency. ❤️ This post is not about shame — it’s about growth. Let’s upgrade our parenting toolkit, one gentle shift at a time. 💫

143 likes

Some parenting tips I wish I knew

As my daughter is only three right now, I do not know as much as I want to but these are things I have learned along the way. I am a Psychology major and I have done my own the tv/tablet experiment. I gave her tv everyday to every other day multiple times a day and her tantrums were so bad. 5 tim

40 likes

A flat lay shows a Kindle e-reader, a mug with a drink, and a spoon on a plaid tablecloth. Overlay text reads: "Four Books That Altered My BRAIN CHEMISTRY And My OVERALL APPROACH TO PARENTING."

A Kindle displays 'Raising Securely Attached Kids' by Eli Harwood, with a quote about secure attachment. Takeaways include the importance of attachment and parental well-being, for building deep emotional bonds and fostering resilience.

A Kindle shows 'The Whole-Brain Child' by Daniel J. Siegel and Tina Payne Bryson, with a quote on brain integration. Takeaways cover connection, reflection, and using the 'upstairs brain' for managing emotions and improving development.

4 of my Favorite Parenting Books 📚 ✨

The first of many book recommendations that I’m excited to share! The takeaways that I shared here are just a fraction of the knowledge I’ve gained from these reads! Kids definitely don’t come with a “how-to” guide, which is why I believe it's so important to explore a variety of resources t

120 likes

Parenting is hard…🥺

It's truly bittersweet. I was really challenged by son tonight. My son whom is 12 y/o and is almost my height. (I'm 5'6 1/2). Not challenged physically but mentally. He's at the age where he's smelling himself, being easily influenced and feeling rebellious. We are past the gen

578 likes

A tablet displays a calendar and apps on a wooden surface. Text boxes advise parents to 'Create a Family Calendar' and 'Plan Meals Ahead' to save time, accompanied by relevant icons.

A laundry room with a washing machine, dryer, and wooden countertop. Text boxes suggest parents 'Use a Laundry Routine' and 'Delegate Chores' to manage household tasks efficiently.

Parenting Made Easier: Quick Hacks to Save Time! ⏰

Here are some time-saving tips for busy parents that can help make daily life a little easier: 1. Create a Family Calendar 📅 Set up a shared family calendar (digital or physical) to keep track of everyone’s activities, appointments, and events. This helps you avoid last-minute surprises! 2

114 likes

Parenting Habits Kids Never Forget

Your kids may not remember every toy, rule, or routine… but they’ll remember how you made them feel. 🤍 The little things become their inner voice one day: • being listened to without judgment • hugs after hard days • bedtime talks • laughter at the dinner table • feeling safe enough to make

47 likes

Two children stand in a sunny grassy field under a blue sky, with text overlayed: 'GENTLE PARENTING ≠ PERMISSIVE PARENTING HERE'S SOME EXAMPLES'.

A parent carries a child while another child walks beside them on a sidewalk. Text defines 'GENTLE PARENTING' as emphasizing connection, empathy, respect, and positive discipline, and 'PERMISSIVE PARENTING' as high warmth but low expectations.

A child looks into an enclosure, with text comparing gentle and permissive parenting responses for leaving a place and handling hitting, emphasizing boundaries versus giving in or doing nothing.

Gentle parenting ≠ permissive parenting

I keep seeing people put gentle parenting down because they’re mistaking it for permissive parenting. Also, parents who practice permissive parenting like to call it gentle parenting when that’s not the case at all. We practice gentle parenting with my kids, they get told no, they have boundari

218 likes

Parenting TipsI wish I knew

🌟 Dear Parents, In the beautiful journey of parenting, your love shines brighter than the sun. Every sleepless night, every laugh shared, and every lesson taught weaves a tapestry of memories that will last a lifetime. Your patience, kindness, and unwavering support are the roots from which your

57 likes

A young child on a swing set in a park, with trees and grass in the background. The image features the title '5 Low Maintenance Parenting Hacks That Changed My Life' in black text with a white outline.

A park scene with a swing set and trees in the background. Overlaid text describes 'Outfits in Bins' and 'Snack Station' parenting hacks, with a teddy bear emoji next to the first hack.

A park landscape with trees and a distant swing set. Overlaid text describes '1-Toy Rule' in a red box and 'Quick Clean-Up Songs' in a light green box, detailing parenting tips.

5 Simple Parenting Tricks for Busy Moms

As a busy mom, I realized that parenting doesn’t have to be perfect to be peaceful. I stopped striving for Pinterest-level routines and instead focused on what actually made our lives smoother. Here are 5 low-maintenance parenting hacks that changed the game for me: 1. Outfits in Bins – I pre-so

134 likes

Biblical Parenting ✨

Discipline isn’t just about correcting behavior—it’s an opportunity to disciple their hearts. When we stay calm, we reflect the patience and love of Christ to our littles. Save this post for the next hard moment—you’re not alone, and Jesus is with you! Which one do you want to try first?

460 likes

Parenting with Untreated Mental Health Challenges

Parenting while struggling with untreated mental health challenges isn’t a failure—it’s a silent battle. But healing yourself doesn’t just help you; it transforms the future for your children. Take the step to break the cycle. Your healing matters. 🕊️✨ #ParentingAndMentalHealth #BreakingCycl

9 likes

A young child with dark hair in a bun, wearing a floral jacket and pink shorts, plays with a brown basket on a carpeted floor. Overlaid text reads: "Traditional Parenting Beliefs I Unlearned."

A young child sits on a carpeted floor surrounded by colorful blocks. Overlaid text bubbles discuss unlearning beliefs: "Respect is earned, not demanded" and "Crying isn't misbehavior," emphasizing validation over silencing emotions.

A young child in a floral jacket and pink shorts plays with a brown basket on a carpeted floor. Overlaid text bubbles state: "Discipline ≠ Punishment" and "Good behavior isn't always quiet behavior," promoting guidance and understanding.

Traditional Parenting Beliefs I Had to Unlearn

I didn’t realize how much of my parenting was shaped by what I was taught growing up — until I started unlearning it. Respect is earned, not demanded.” ✦ I stopped believing that children owe adults blind obedience. “Crying isn’t misbehavior.” ✦ Emotions aren’t bad. I now validate, not sil

33 likes

Parenting 101 Tip: kids will repeat what you say

I had to tell her Mom afterwards but luckily she thought it was funny too😭 #fyp #whatthebuck #parentingtips #parentingfails #kidsarecrazy

46 likes

What Gentle Parenting Really Looks Like Day to Day

It’s not about being perfect. It’s about showing up with patience, empathy, and connection. Even in the hard moments. Here’s how I handle it: 1. The Tantrum at Target 👉They’re crying because you said no to a toy. Gentle response: “I know you really wanted that. It’s okay to feel upset. I

50 likes

UNPOPULAR PARENTING THINGS I DO AS A SCRUNCHIE MOM

as a scrunchy mom, I try to find balance in life. However, I know that there are a few things that I feel very strongly about and here are a few. ✨ I did not let my baby try food until eight months And the reason being is that he is breast-fed, and I personally feel like the research in my own

211 likes

A black and white photo shows a mother embracing and kissing her child, with text overlayed: "The Unfiltered reality of PARENTING A CHILD WITH AUTISM." Icons include a heart, musical note, and a yellow arrow, emphasizing the emotional and unique journey of raising an autistic child.

A digital graphic lists challenges of parenting an autistic child, including "Lifelong commitment," "Creativity and adaptability," and "Sleepless nights." A note states these are personal experiences, acknowledging the uniqueness of each individual on the spectrum.

A digital graphic highlights positive aspects of parenting an autistic child, such as "Overwhelming love," "Unpredictable days," and "Moments of magic." It emphasizes cherishing unique expressions and connections, while acknowledging the challenges.

Parenting and Autism

Parenting in general brings a set of new challenges for any first-time parent. Autism, developmental, or even physical disabilities can bring an entirely different set of learning curves for us parents. So , I like many parents in this have felt isolated and not heard. People try to correct us, tel

7 likes

Dog parenting isn’t always easy 🤍 #dogs #dog #dogsoflemon8 #pets #pet

4 likes

🌻 Things Chronic Illness Could Not Take From Me: Motherhood Edition | Parenting

🌻 Things Chronic Illness Could Not Take From Me: Motherhood Edition | Parenting Through Chronic Illness Chronic illness changed a lot of things in my life, but it could never take away the love I have for my children. Some days I move slower. Some days I need more rest. Some days I have to

2 likes

Islamic Parenting: Importance of Sincerity

We don’t have to feel like we have all the answers all the time 🌹 #islam #quran #muslim #islamicparenting #muslimparents

11 likes

The image introduces 'parenting through the air moon signs,' explaining that a child's Moon sign reveals their emotional world, needs, and how they seek comfort. Understanding it helps parents meet their child's emotional needs, fostering security and empathy.

This image describes 'PARENTING A TODDLER WITH A GEMINI MOON.' Gemini Moon toddlers are curious, quick, and learn through words and movement. They may intellectualize feelings and find comfort in mental engagement and being heard.

The image provides 'TIPS FOR PARENTING A GEMINI MOON PART 1.' Tips include using simple language to describe emotions, providing mental stimulation with books and puzzles, and encouraging expression by giving space for questions and thoughts.

parenting through air moon signs

#parentinghacks #astrology #moon #hacks #parenting

6 likes

ADHD Parenting ✨

Comment or message me if you need any support or advice! 🤍🥰 #parenting #adhdinwomen #motherhood #adhdparenting #neurodivergent

266 likes

parenting tip‼️

As our supply of clothes from gifts/hand me downs got smaller and smaller, I started stressing out about the day he moves up in sizes and we have nothing that fits him. Because what if he runs out and we don’t have the money at that time to buy him new clothes? Well I found a way to ease my str

14 likes

A hand holds three parenting books: 'The Out-of-Sync Child,' 'Bringing Up Bébé,' and 'Doing It All,' stacked vertically on a patterned rug. Overlays read 'Parenting Books' and 'for the overwhelmed moms.'

A hand holds 'The Out-of-Sync Child' book, a revised edition by Carol Stock Kranowitz, M.A., about recognizing and coping with Sensory Processing Disorder. An overlay states 'STRATEGIES TO HELP REGULATE YOUR CHILD.'

A hand holds 'Bringing Up Bébé' by Pamela Druckerman, a New York Times Bestseller about French parenting strategies. Overlays describe it as a 'light, fun read' that 'dives into french parenting strategies.'

Top parenting books for the overwhelmed mom

I have read a countless amount of parenting books. I typically lean on reading books when I am overwhelmed and need some guidance on how to manage/cope. Here are some of my favorite books from one overwhelmed mom to another: The Out-of-Sync Child: I was borrowed this book from my daughter’s

19 likes

An overhead shot shows two children on a carpeted floor, with a stack of books held in the foreground. The image has a text overlay that reads, 'RATING PARENTING BOOKS I'VE READ'.

A hand holds the book 'The Happiest Toddler on the Block' by Harvey Karp, M.D. An overlay rates it 3/5 stars, stating the advice is better for younger toddlers (1-2) and some tips didn't work.

A hand holds the book 'Toddler Discipline for Every Age and Stage' by Aubrey Hargis. An overlay rates it 4/5 stars, describing it as an easy read with age-specific strategies for handling tantrums.

Rating PARENTING BOOKS I’ve read 📚

If you’re in your gentle parenting era, these books are total must-reads for toddler moms.💛 “The Whole-Brain Child” & “Tiny Humans, Big Emotions” completely changed the way I respond to tantrums. Both are a 5/5 stars in my book for helping me stay calm & connected.⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ “Toddl

29 likes

Marriage & parenting 🤣

How often do you and your spouse pamper each other? What are some things that you feel bringing you and your spouse closer and also fun ! Although I love doing his hair, he is tender headed so it is not as satisfying for him 🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️ #unfiltered #Lemon8Diary #lemon8letschat #fypシ #

26 likes

A person holds a child in a grassy field, with text overlay 'THE PARENTING ADVICE I STOPPED LISTENING TO', indicating the article's theme about parenting advice.

Two babies, likely twins, lie on a colorful playmat on a couch, looking at each other, with the text overlay "'stick to a schedule'", referencing common parenting advice.

A child's hands are shown doing an autumn-themed craft, placing paper leaves on a drawn tree, with text overlays 'at first I loved it' and 'now it makes me miserable', reflecting a change in perspective.

The Parenting Advice I Stopped Listening To 🫶

Everyone told me, “Stick to a schedule — it’ll make your life easier.” (Especially with twins.) And honestly, when my twins were newborns, that was true. I work from home, and having everything timed out — naps, feeds, work blocks — kept the chaos manageable. But now that they’re two, that same

16 likes

See more