In my personal experience, I've found that the pressure to conform or follow someone just because they seem popular or dominant often leads to feelings of regret and unhappiness. The phrase "It's not 'cool' to be his follower" strongly resonates because it highlights the courage needed to stand against toxic influences. I once faced a situation where a group of friends encouraged me to participate in harmful gossip and exclusionary behavior. At first, I thought going along with them would help me fit in. However, over time, I realized that true respect and friendship come from authenticity and kindness, not from blindly following someone who promotes negativity. Rejecting these negative influences isn't easy, but it leads to stronger self-esteem and healthier relationships. Embracing values like love and kindness, as seen in this community’s hashtags, can transform our social circles and ourselves. Remember, standing up for what is right and avoiding 'hating' or 'rejecting evil' doesn't mean you are alone; many people share your values and want to support positive change. Choosing to be a leader of kindness rather than a follower of harmful behavior is truly what makes someone 'cool' in the most meaningful way.