Is Christmas time for you, bittersweet?
I lost my mama, at the tender age of 20. I’m now 29. She and I were so close. We we’re best friends. She was my “go to person.” She and I was always there for one another.
There were times that we laughed so much together. I mean, rofl. I found my mother extremely funny. She was always the serious type, which made her so adorable and so cute, during certain situations.
She never understood why I found her to be so funny, but her , seeing me laughing would make her laugh hard. We would just be laughing hysterically and she didn’t know why? 🤣
She was so innocent and beautiful. She was giving, caring and absolutely precious. It has been 9 years, since she left this world and for whatever reason, THIS HOLIDAY SEASON has been the hardest.
If you still have your mom, cherish every moment. The void, when she’s gone, never goes away. If she’s already left this world or whoever it is that you’re missing, know that I care. Jesus bless you with peace and comfort.
The holiday season often amplifies feelings of loss and longing, especially for those who have lost someone close to them. If you find yourself missing a parent, sibling, or friend this Christmas, it's important to allow yourself to grieve while also celebrating their memory. It might help to incorporate a tradition that honors their life, such as lighting a candle in their memory or sharing stories about them with family and friends. Consider creating a memory box where you can place mementos that remind you of your loved one, or engaging in activities that you enjoyed together. Remind yourself and others that it's okay to feel a mix of happiness and sadness during holidays. Seek support from those who understand your feelings; joining a support group or talking to friends can provide comfort. Remember that grief is a unique journey, and allowing yourself to experience whatever emotions arise is part of healing. May this season bring you moments of peace and the strength to celebrate love in the face of loss.
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