It’s coming up to my birthday again

I’ve been looking back at the times where I made a huge deal of going off and celebrating my birthday in a new country. For a few years it’s all I did. These photos are from my trip to India.

Had it not been for that lockdown period this would have been my norm even up to now. Something happened during that closed in period. I could think without having to be in motion, I could still plan in solitude without being half way around the world. I still traveled. I went back to Jamaica more frequently. I reconnected with the land of my birth. I reconnected with old friends and made some new ones.

I did travel to Ghana too—another pivotal moment.

But, I don’t know, I’ve been restless lately. 😩 Is it the time of year? My birthday coming up? Aquarius energy…feeling something brewing? What is it? Feelings like these are itchy…restless…distracting…baseless—as in what can you use to justify it?

Anyone getting that feeling?

#birthdaytransition #aquarius #rants #jamaican

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... Read moreCelebrating birthdays away from home has always been a unique tradition for me. Each trip feels like marking a new chapter, not just another year older, but a deeper exploration of the world and myself. My travels to India, Ghana, and frequent returns to Jamaica aren’t just about the places but about reconnecting with roots, old friends, and new perspectives. The recent lockdown shifted this dynamic significantly. Suddenly, the endless motion paused, creating a space for introspection that I hadn’t anticipated. This quieter period allowed me to reflect deeply on what it means to celebrate, to grow, and to find contentment both within and beyond travel. I realized that while the thrill of new places is intoxicating, there’s profound value in stillness and the simple joys of reconnecting with where I come from. Lately, as my birthday approaches, I’ve been feeling a restlessness that's hard to pin down. Maybe it’s the energy of Aquarius season stirring change or the natural transition we all face with age and reflection. These feelings—itchy, ungrounded, and compelling—push me to question what’s next. It’s a reminder that growth isn’t always linear, and sometimes, the best journeys happen within. For those experiencing similar sensations, whether triggered by a birthday or seasonal energy, I encourage embracing the uncertainty. Use these moments to explore new dreams, reconnect with past joys, or simply allow yourself to feel the complex emotions of transition. Birthdays are not just milestones; they are invitations to evolve. And sometimes, restlessness is the first sign that something new is waiting just around the corner.

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