my experience with dv 🥲
TW: DV.
Up until this current relationship I have now, I have been in nothing but toxic, unloving relationships. Not all as terrible as this one, this was the relationship that truly broke me.
From age 17/18 until 22 years old, I allowed someone to manipulate me and use me. In all different kinds of ways. I lived with this person, moved states, broke up and got back together time and time again, until I was met with physical abüse.
This was the instance that I decided to leave, for me. Up until this point I had endured a lot of verbal abüse. I finally hit my breaking point.
Today I have a wonderful loving boyfriend who would never hurt me. We still have some healing to do, but that is okay❤️ I now work at a DV center helping people who end up in situations like I was in.





































































I am so proud of you. Your strength is incredible. It takes so much courage not only to leave, but to turn your pain into purpose!!! You didn’t just survive, you’re helping others find their way out, too. That’s true healing and true heroism. Much love to you 🩷