SO!! I always do two takes and I’ve never shown the ones that don’t make the cut BUT I thought it was interesting seeing them side by side because you can see- I’m basically doing the same steps, just in a different order every time.
I cannot do choreography. at all. Like genuinely don’t think I could duet myself and recreate a dance exactly 😅 But once I learned the footwork, it became all about muscle memory and just winging it and that’s where I’m at.
If anyone wants to learn, here’s a tutorial @Liz Fox Roseberry which is truly a really good base to start from 🫶
It is SO insane to me how viral my dancing videos go sometimes (I’m a jewelry designer!) but i love that people respond to both. It’s such good exercise and genuinely so fun. And yes you can do it- i literally never danced a day in my life til i was 34 and I just taught myself in my garage!!
And omg none of this came naturally to me. AT ALL!
Honestly it’s just the power of practice, hyperfixation, boredom and…obsession :)
Learning to dance as an adult without formal training can feel intimidating, but my experience proves it's entirely possible with the right mindset and approach. I started dancing at the age of 34, having never danced before in my life. What helped me most was breaking down the steps into manageable pieces. Instead of stressing about perfect choreography, I focused on mastering footwork and relied heavily on muscle memory. This meant repeating the steps until they became second nature, which made the dance feel more natural and spontaneous. The idea of "winging it" really resonated with me. After learning the basics, I allowed myself the freedom to improvise and rearrange moves without worrying about sticking to a strict order. This approach not only made dancing more enjoyable but also reduced the pressure to be flawless. From a fitness perspective, dancing offers a fantastic cardio workout and improves coordination and rhythm over time. It's also a great mental break that can combat boredom and encourage creativity. I found that consistent practice—even if just in my garage—was key to improvement and confidence. For anyone hesitant to start dancing, I highly recommend finding beginner tutorials or videos that focus on simple, foundational steps. Practicing regularly, even if just for a few minutes a day, builds muscle memory and internalizes footwork that you can then adapt or expand upon. Remember that feeling awkward at first is normal, and the goal is enjoyment and expression rather than perfection. Above all, embracing the process—practice, occasional missteps, and all—helps develop a personal style. Viral dance videos may seem effortless to viewers, but they're often the result of persistence and a willingness to experiment. Take it from someone who never thought they could dance: it’s an empowering journey that anyone can start with a little curiosity and commitment.
