Mom of 4 and in nursing school

It's true, every day as a mom in nursing school feels like a delicate balance, and sometimes, it feels like the scales are tipped way off! My journey, especially with four little ones, is full of 'Real Moments' – some triumphant, some utterly chaotic. For anyone wondering how to survive nursing school with kids, especially within a flexible program like WGU, I've learned a few things I wish I knew from the start. First, mastering time management is non-negotiable, but it also has to be flexible. My study schedule isn't rigid; it adapts to doctor's appointments, sudden fevers, and school holidays. I've found that breaking down study sessions into smaller, manageable chunks works wonders. Instead of aiming for a solid two hours, I might grab 20 minutes during nap time, another 30 while dinner simmers, and an hour after the kids are in bed. Utilizing audio lectures or flashcards while doing chores has also been a game-changer. It’s about finding those pockets of time that often go unnoticed. The flexibility of the WGU nursing program has been my lifesaver. Being able to move things around when life throws a curveball, like when two of my girls were under the weather recently, is invaluable. This self-paced model means I can really dive deep into complex topics like critical thinking without feeling rushed by external deadlines. For tackling performance assessments (PAs) and understanding intricate disease processes, I've found that breaking down the material into personal 'concept maps' helps immensely. Even if it's just jotting down connections between symptoms, pathophysiology, and nursing interventions, it clarifies the 'recognizing cues' aspect that WGU emphasizes. It’s not always about a formal concept map, but the process of organizing information. Building a strong support system is another crucial piece of the puzzle. Whether it’s your partner, a trusted friend, or even connecting with other student moms online, having someone who understands your struggles and can offer a hand (or just an ear) makes a huge difference. Don't be afraid to ask for help, whether it's with childcare for a study session or just having someone bring over a meal when you're overwhelmed. Lastly, don't neglect self-care. It might feel impossible to squeeze in, but even 15 minutes of quiet time, a quick walk, or listening to your favorite music can recharge your batteries. There will be days you barely study, and that's okay. Give yourself grace. Remember why you started this journey – for those 'Real Moments' of pride when you achieve your goals and become the future nurse you envision. It’s a marathon, not a sprint, and every day, whether you study for hours or just a few minutes, you’re moving forward.