From personal experience, building attraction before expecting anything in return is a vital principle in relationships. It's not just about physical appearance but also about how you present yourself and communicate. Taking care of your grooming, like keeping your hair neat and being presentable, sets a positive first impression. Conversation is equally important; it helps establish a connection that goes beyond just looks. One thing I've learned is that attraction cannot be forced or rushed. It’s not logical to expect continuity in a relationship without reason or effort to maintain that attraction. Women appreciate genuine attention and respect, which means being thoughtful and present in your interactions without trying to 'subtract' or take away from the positive energy you’ve built. Moreover, every relationship benefits from mutual respect and understanding. Giving your time and attention willingly nurtures a deeper bond, rather than draining your energy or resources to the point of bankruptcy, which some misguided advice may wrongly suggest. Maintaining a natural flow and not pushing too hard will create a healthier and more sustainable connection. In essence, attraction is the foundation upon which all else builds. Before you endeavor to subtract or take anything from a partner, ensure you have genuinely attracted and connected with them on a meaningful level. This approach has helped me foster better relationships and avoid common pitfalls where the connection deteriorates because of misplaced priorities or lack of mutual respect.