I am not on here to date NO ONE.

Here are something about me. I am not your type.

1. I am myself and don’t wish to be anyone else

2. I have my own everything and do not need anything from anyone

3. I am fat and most men are not interested in dating fat women out in the open.

4. I am Hispanic, dad is Puerto Rican and mom is Indian and Guyanese. Also this means that I am a black woman.

5. I love the lord Jesus Christ for real and not for play and only want and wish to do what he has called me to do.

6. My focus is on a project that requires my attention and I don’t have time for nothing else.

7. I work 12 hour days

8. I am a director of a charter school

9. I don’t have money to give freely to men. If a man does not work then he should not eat

10. I am kind, compassionate and empathetic.

11. I have been single since 2019

12. I am abstinent. This means I am sexually inactive.

13. I am not interested in attention or any praise.

14. I hope this helps to gain understanding and answers all y’all questions.

#Lemon8Diary #unfiltered #standardsmatter #productive #beingawoman

2024/7/13 Edited to

... Read moreIn a world often focused on appearance and dating, embracing one's true self is essential. Body positivity is a movement encouraging individuals to love their bodies regardless of societal standards. The narrative surrounding plus-size individuals often skews towards negativity; however, celebrating diverse body types can foster community and acceptance. Furthermore, aligning with spiritual beliefs, such as Christianity, provides a foundation for personal values and motivations. For those exploring self-discovery or facing challenges with identity or faith, reflecting on personal experiences can encourage others to embrace their own paths. Establishing personal boundaries and prioritizing self-care, as I have done, can lead to a fulfilling life focused on personal goals rather than societal expectations. My experience as a director in education underscores the importance of leadership, resilience, and dedication to one's calling. Many individuals, like myself, juggle multiple commitments, balancing work with personal values and aspirations. This can inspire others to seek their respective purposes within their professions, contributing positively to society. Additionally, discussions around abstinence and personal values highlight the complexities of relationships in today's world, showcasing the beauty of prioritizing one's beliefs and journey. By sharing my story, I hope to inspire conversations around self-acceptance, purpose, and community support, ultimately emphasizing the importance of living authentically and aligning with one's values.

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you don't get less fake than that

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Amen. I'm changing my standards. I'm tired of meeting men who don't want to wait for me in my abstinence. the only question I have for you is how do you navigate being you and wanting children with these men? thanks.

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