I have lost a fair amount of friends and team mates since I have come out about being female at birth and my face reveal. SO many. In the same breath, I have also gained so many new friends and team mates as well!

Now I’ll give you a warning—here comes the unforgiving “A**hole A”…I have damn good reasoning to post this, so I don’t wanna hear it, respectfully. 🙃

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

You don’t like that I’m AFAB? Buh-bye. You don’t like that I’m demi? Buh-bye. You don’t like that I don’t do feral content constantly? Buh-bye. You thought I had certain anatomy and you’re mad that I Don’t? Buh-bye. You don’t like that I don’t fit your standards and expectations? Buh-bye!👋🏻

Don’t be mad just because I can do both—I can be your boytoy and I can be your bride.😘

Much love from your boyfriend AND girlfriend!!!

Love you, babycakes! 🥰

~A

(PS: My pronouns are he/him, thank you!)

2024/12/23 Edited to

... Read moreComing out can be a profound experience, often resulting in both loss and gain in relationships. For many, like in my situation, revealing one's identity—like being assigned female at birth (AFAB)—can drastically change the dynamics of friendships. It's vital to surround oneself with supportive individuals who resonate with your journey. The process of coming out often brings about a mix of reactions; some may distance themselves while others embrace your truth. The key is to stay true to oneself and find communities that celebrate differences. Acceptance and understanding in friendships are crucial, and it's essential to prioritize relationships that foster love and respect. Embracing both masculine and feminine qualities can lead to a richer, more authentic self. Let's spread love and acceptance in our communities!

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