Our Love Story

Met the man of my dreams 3 years ago but friend zoned him immediately…oops! We worked together for 2 1/2 years and I never thought we could be more than coworkers. I did not want to be in a relationship at that time at all. He became one of my closest work friends but I made very clear boundaries that it would be nothing more….then everything changed when I saw his dating profile and got JEALOUS 😩🤣 joke was on me….I realized the perfect man had been in front of me the entire time. I opened myself up to love again and haven’t turned back since.

At this time in my life I was so happy and content on my own and had no interest in finding love. This man blew me out of the water and picked me every single day.

My advice I wish my younger self knew was….pick a man that you never have to question his pursuit and love for you. Don’t settle for someone who you have to question their dedication to protecting and caring for your heart. Their are amazing men out there…sometimes right in front of you 😉💖

#love #LoveYourself #lovestory #mentalhealth #dating #LoveMyself #relationship #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #mystory

2024/1/5 Edited to

... Read moreNavigating the complexities of romantic relationships can be challenging, particularly when emotions and friendships intertwine. It’s common to misinterpret feelings, as I did when I initially friend zoned my now-partner. In my experience, recognizing the signs of genuine affection is vital. Often, our ideal partners are present in our lives, masked by the boundaries we set. Jealousy can serve as an awakening — a reminder of what we truly value. The journey to love often requires vulnerability. When I noticed my partner’s dating profile, it prompted me to reconsider my feelings and opened the door to love. It became essential to reflect on what I deserved in a relationship, which contrasts from the fear of emotional risk that often holds us back. Choosing someone who actively demonstrates love and commitment is key; it's about comfort and certainty in their intentions. Furthermore, as I learned from my own story, cultivating self-love allows us to recognize the love we deserve from others. Don’t ignore your worth and the qualities that make you unique. When pursuing a relationship, prioritize those who reciprocate your feelings authentically. Trust and respect should never feel questioned, and ensuring that a partner values your heart can drastically change the course of your love life. To those finding themselves in similar situations, remember: the best partners are often right in front of us. Embrace the journey, and be open to opportunities for love that arise unexpectedly. Your happiness depends on the healthy relationships you cultivate and the love you choose to accept.

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