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why I didn’t post this

#unfiltered Being means a lot of things. It means removing a filter from a photo. Or not even editing it in the first place. Let me tell you a secret: I am usually not my “best self” no, let me re-phrase I try and always be my best self but I can’t consistently achieve perfectionism. I try to achieve my “ideal self” but how exhausting. Authenticity is hard but it is so important. If I strive to be anything, it’s authentic and I hope that when a person meets me they speak of my genuine nature.

I have never posted there on social media because I didn’t get accepted into a program and my heart was shattered. (I also was embarasssed because of how my makeup looked and hair) I lost my ability to actualize that my life is not going to go the way I planned. And until recently I have struggled to find a reason to start my journey back to school. But after reflecting and learning about myself not just my ideal self but my true self I can confidently say I will continue to apply until I am in a PhD program for clinical psychology. And I’ll get in one day. Watch me!

🤔Cons:I found myself straying from my authenticity by using an app to correct my grammar.

👍Pros:I just want people to accept me as I am and if you would like to connect please reach out. I am always here for anyone!

#embracevulnerability #Lemon8Diary #shareyourthoughts #healthylifestyle2024 #goals2024 #phd #grief #studentlife

2024/3/27 Edited to

In today's digital age, social media often pushes us towards idealized versions of ourselves, prompting many to struggle with authenticity. Many people face pressures to present a perfect image, yet embracing imperfections can lead to greater self-acceptance and mental well-being. In my case, the fear of judgment after not being accepted into a program held me back initially. However, understanding that vulnerability can be a strength is crucial. Sharing my true self not only helps me connect with others but also encourages them to be authentic. This journey isn’t just about pursuing a PhD in clinical psychology; it's about celebrating who I am and encouraging others to embrace their true selves, imperfections and all. Additionally, focusing on self-acceptance can significantly impact mental health. Engaging with like-minded individuals who also value authenticity can foster a supportive community. Online platforms, such as Lemon8, provide opportunities to connect with those who understand the struggle of living authentically in a curated world. As I continue to apply for academic programs, I seek to create a narrative that inspires others to prioritize their mental health, pursue their ambitions, and remain true to themselves despite societal pressures.

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