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For those who find "normal" difficult

"I can't do it normally"

That's it.

You can blame yourself.

But that's.

Not the ability.

it's just not right.

Maybe.

Each person,

There is a way to fit.

If you continue to force it,

I get more and more tired.

This work,

and said, stay different.

Tell me gently.

That's it.

It makes it a little easier.

The more people who work too hard,

I want you to loosen up once.

Korean Dora Lawyer Woo Young-woo is a genius # empathy Be yourself # mental _ care

6 days agoEdited to

... Read more私も以前は「普通にできない自分」を責めてばかりいました。周りと同じように振る舞えず、空気を読みすぎてしまい、心身ともに疲れ果てることも多かったです。しかし、ある時『やり方が違うだけ』と考えを変え、自分に合った方法を探すようになりました。 例えば、同じ仕事のタスクでも誰かのやり方を真似るのではなく、自分のペースやスタイルに合わせて少しずつ取り組むことにしました。その結果、効率は落ちないのにストレスは大幅に減り、自分を責める気持ちも和らぎました。 また、韓ドラの『ウヨンウ弁護士は天才肌』に描かれるキャラクターのように、自分らしさを大切にしている姿に共感しました。こうした作品は、「違うままでいい」というメッセージを優しく教えてくれます。私にとって、それは心の支えとなりました。 もしあなたも「普通」に疲れているのなら、無理に合わせようとせず、自分に合った生き方を見つけることをおすすめします。時にはゆるんで、自分のペースで進むことが大切です。心が軽くなると、日常の小さな幸せにも気づきやすくなりますよ。

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