THINGS I WANT MY TEEN DAUGHTER TO KNOW ✨👑
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1. Don’t let your friends distract you/hold you back in class. Your friends aren’t what’s going to get you that diploma, your mindset and your grades are. Pay attention to what’s being taught, even if it’s boring. Do your absolute BEST on every assignment, if you fail, no one’s going to be mad if you TRIED. Only if you didn’t. And your parents and teacher can 100% tell if you truly tried versus if you didn’t. If you don’t understand something, ask the TEACHER, not your friends. The teacher is the teacher for a reason. Your friends are likely in the same boat as you and may not understand 100% either. ESPECIALLY if ya’ll are too busy distracting each other. Help your friends or form a study group with friends outside of school, not during class.
2. Stop trying so hard to fit in!! You don’t have to like a certain designer brand, or wear a certain style, or listen to certain music just because your friends do. Stay true to yourself! If your friend group judges you for what YOU authentically like, find better friends! MOST of the people you’re trying so hard to impress, you won’t even talk to by the time you graduate.
3. Watch your mouth! 👄 just because you think something is funny, doesn’t mean someone else will. Even if they force a laugh or smile, it may seriously hurt them on the inside. DON’T ever be mean and put someone else down just to get a laugh out of others! Treat others how you want to be treated. You’re NOT better than anyone else, just as anyone else isn’t better than you. If it can’t be fixed in 10 seconds, it’s not worth pointing out. Example: fixing your hair, adjusting your shirt/clothes, those are things someone can typically control/fix within 10 seconds. ACNE, WEIGHT, etc are NOT things someone can fix within 10 seconds so best not to address them period, at least In a mean/derogatory manner. Only in a HELPFUL manner IF advice is genuinely sought by the other person.
4. It’s okay to say NO if it’s something you’re not comfortable doing. You don’t owe anyone anything! 99% of DARES are NOT cool. They’ll only get you hurt or in trouble so best just to sit them out and take the “L” or look uncool. The game or situation will pass, a serious injury/serious trouble may not. It really is better to be SAFE than sorry at least 90% of the time.
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Raising a teenage daughter can be both challenging and rewarding. It’s crucial that young girls learn to prioritize their education and personal values during this transformative time. Teen girls often face peer pressure to conform to popular trends and social norms. Encouraging self-acceptance can help them develop confidence and healthy relationships. Helping them understand the power of saying 'no' is equally important; it allows them to protect their well-being and make empowered choices. Social interactions are pivotal during teenage years, and strategies to navigate friendships while maintaining individuality can be invaluable. Additionally, teaching kindness and respect for others lays a foundation for better social skills. The importance of clear communication cannot be overstated. Encourage open dialogues about their experiences, feelings, and challenges. Creating a safe space for teens where they can share without judgment can instill a strong sense of trust and guidance. Engaging with them through discussions about their interests or concerns promotes openness. Lastly, guiding them to seek help when needed, whether it’s academic challenges or social issues, can lead them to better mental health and resilience. Equip them with these positive life lessons that will not just help in their teenage years but will serve them throughout life.
I would also add something to remind her that you are on her side and can come to her about anything even/especially secrets. I really needed to hear that when I was a teenager from literally anyone. It can never hurt to remind her. And it can help her to know that she can trust you, especially when she needs you.