I learned this the hard way in my 30s, when I was newly divorced and suddenly stranded all alone. The divorce was my fault, and I wanted it as well, and so majority of the blame is on me. But if I was given a chance to go back in time, get back with my ex, and fix the marriage , would I? T

I’m now 35 and it’s been 3 years of growing since then. I feel I’ve learnt more about love being out of it than actually being in it. Often times in a marriage, It’s the curse of complacency. Tbh I sometimes laugh when I see certain relationship advice TikToks or YTs or articles because some