Unexpectedly deep psychology of people who say "I'm me anyway"

Let's take a look at [10 surprising deep psychology] of people who say "I'm not..." anyway.

🥹 10 Deep Psychology of People Who Say I ✨

This isn't just subservience. It might apply to people around you, or maybe even yourself, right?

1️⃣ Inside Out of Perfectionism

👉 "If I fail, I won't do it from the beginning." In fact, because there is a high expectation that "I should be able to do it," I give up first for fear of failure.

2️⃣ want attention, I want attention

👉 "I want people to worry about me by saying negative things." By disrespecting myself, I'm trying to bring out the warm words of * * "That's not true!" "It's okay! * *.

3️⃣ Insurance to Prevent Failure

👉 "If you lower your expectations from the beginning, you won't be hurt even if the result is bad." It's an unconscious psychological * * 'bulletproof vest' * * to protect yourself.

4️⃣ Effects Denied by Parents

👉 "From the experience of being denied by my parents, I believe that I am a natural existence to be neglected." It is a state where imprinting in childhood is automatically activated even when becoming an adult.

5️⃣ Avoiding attacks on others

👉 "As a result of my actions, I'm afraid of being bothered or thought bad by someone." By blaming myself, I prevent criticism from the other person first.

6️⃣ Approval Desire

👉 "I want to be seen as a humble person by belittling myself." There is a psychology that tries to raise the evaluation from the surroundings by daring to be humble.

7️⃣ the status quo.

👉 "It's troublesome to make an effort to change. I want to decide that it's impossible anyway and use it as a reason to stay as it is." I'm running away from the * * "pain" * * that accompanies growth and change.

8️⃣ pressure to meet someone's expectations.

👉 "The expectations from the people around me are too heavy, and I'm trying to betray them on purpose." By saying "I'm not the one anyway," I'm silently saying * * "Don't expect anything" * * and issuing SOS.

9️⃣ too few past successes.

👉 "I can't believe in my potential because there are few small successes." The foundation for growing self-esteem is still weak.

🔟 don't know how I feel

👉 "What I really want to do and what I think are ambiguous. That's why I can't act and blame myself." It is evidence that I unconsciously avoid listening to my inner voice.

Did you get surprised? Some of you may have thought, "It's me!."

The phrase "I'm not here anyway" is actually the flip side of your deepest hope: "I really should be able to do more!"

This word is also proof that you have the energy to * * "want to change" * *. First of all, let's acknowledge that "I want to change."

💖 solution is this!

The moment that negative tweet comes out, try to translate it into the following words.

"Anyway, I'm not..." ↓ "But should I try a little?" "Just one thing you can do first!"

This small step will help you develop your self-esteem and change your future ✨

If you fall into any of these deep psychics, please let me know your number in the comments! Anything like "I was surprised by number 1!" or "Number 5 is me!" is OK 😊

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