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How to Make People Fearful of Us - Like People Have Power in Themselves

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How to Make People Fearful of Us - Like People Have Power in Themselves

1. Dress up to look good. Even on weekdays because the image is the power pass.

Smooth But Ultra Dress, Still Tone Color (Black, White, Cream, Grey)

Clean shoes, bags - symbolize those who take care of themselves and do not wait for anyone to accept "those who respect themselves first...Is someone that others will automatically be considerate of. "

2. Body odor = Signature of memory, warm or clean perfumes (musk, vanilla, wood) will create an aura "tactical person," because preference begins with a person wanting to get close...But dare not cross the line.

3. Confident tone - but not strong. Speak in a "still, strong" tone, not loud, but clear. The person who controls the voice is the person who controls the situation.

4. Make eye contact and hold for three seconds. This is the secret weapon that every CEO uses.

Eye contact = Send power

drooping = losing power

5.Make up or Grooming to look "ready all the time"

Clean smooth hair, shaped eyebrows, slightly colored lips, not the most beautiful in the room - but to look "ready, the most in the room."

6. Walk slowly but confidently. Don't semi-run. Don't bow down.

Step firm. Weight down full feet. Practice standing upright.

Walking time...People will know, "This person is not a joke."

7.Choose a powerful quote instead of saying "I don't know," saying "I'll check and inform again" - immediately sounds professional.

Body language and spoken language must go in the same direction.

8. Set up a professional Boundary, speak softly but decisively, such as, "Focus on work, do not accept more projects. People with boundaries are people who others will not dare to overstep.

9. Speak less but be satisfied. Every word of us must be heavy. Remember: "Speak less but more expensive."

10. Dress in line with the power you want to send out. Want to look warm → Use earth tone

Want to look authoritative > Use black-gold tone

Want to see easy access but firm → Use cream-gray

A dress is a silent energy that tells people, "Who are you?"

11. No mount, no complain, no competition with anyone, because our power will heal immediately. People who talk about their work rather than people.

Others are people who want to work with.

12. Stay where people dare not speak...And then say what's necessary.

Speak at the right time = gain respect without asking.

13. Smile a little, but not a blunt smile. A confident smile is the "soft power" of people who know their worth.

14. Keep the promise. Even a small thing, people will start to see that "this person speaks and does," and the power of presumptuousness will increase without preaching.

15. Stay quiet and release the work of a real person, not to explain yourself much, the silence of a good person...Louder than people's words/โรงเรียนเทพศิรินทร์

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