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"The most unsettling phase of life."

This time in my life

Unsettling in many matters.

It's not just about work or money.

But it's the feeling inside.

That still can't find the place

Some days act like strong

Both inside wanting to rest

Want to stop

Want to disappear for a while

But even unstable

I still chose to wake up.

Continue living in a swaying way.

If you're in the same range,

Let's know that.

This instability... will not stay with us forever. 🤍

What has made you feel most insecure lately?

# Transitional period

# Life is unstable

♪ Start over

# Heal heart

# lemon 8 thailand

2025/12/28 Edited to

... Read moreในช่วงเวลาที่ชีวิตเจอความไม่มั่นคง ไม่ว่าจะเป็นเรื่องการงานการเงิน หรือความรู้สึกภายในใจ หลายครั้งที่เราอาจรู้สึกว่าเหมือนถูกกระแสลมพัดไปมาโดยไร้จุดหมาย ซึ่งเป็นภาวะที่หลายคนต้องผ่าน แต่อยากแบ่งปันว่า การยอมรับความรู้สึกเหล่านี้เป็นก้าวแรกที่สำคัญที่สุด การฝืนทำตัวเข้มแข็งตลอดเวลานั้นไม่จำเป็นต้องเป็นคำตอบ บางครั้งก็ต้องให้เวลากับตัวเองได้พัก ได้หายใจ และได้ทบทวนว่าความรู้สึกไม่มั่นคงนี้มาจากอะไร และเราสามารถควบคุมหรือเปลี่ยนแปลงอะไรได้บ้าง วิธีนี้จะช่วยให้จิตใจมีความชัดเจนขึ้นและลดความเครียดลงได้ จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การเขียนบันทึกความรู้สึกในแต่ละวัน หรือพูดคุยกับคนที่เราวางใจได้เป็นอีกหนึ่งวิธีที่ช่วยปลดปล่อยความกังวลออกมา อีกทั้งยังช่วยสร้างความเชื่อมโยงและกำลังใจให้เราไม่รู้สึกโดดเดี่ยวในช่วงเวลาที่เปราะบางนี้ สิ่งสำคัญคือ จำไว้ว่าความไม่มั่นคงนี้ไม่ได้อยู่กับเราตลอดไป เหมือนกับที่โพสต์ได้กล่าวไว้ ชีวิตมีช่วงเวลาที่ดีและยากลำบากสลับกัน และทุกครั้งที่เราผ่านมันมาได้ เราจะเข้มแข็งและเข้าใจตัวเองมากขึ้น แม้ว่าจะไม่รู้ว่าอนาคตจะเป็นอย่างไร แต่การเลือกตื่นขึ้นมาทุกวันและใช้ชีวิตอย่างดีที่สุดในวันที่มีอยู่ นั่นคือความกล้าหาญที่ยิ่งใหญ่ที่สุด ถ้าคุณกำลังเผชิญช่วงเวลาที่รู้สึกไม่มั่นคง อยากให้ลองเปิดใจกับตัวเองและคนรอบข้าง แชร์ความรู้สึกของคุณเพื่อสร้างพื้นที่ปลอดภัยในการเยียวยาใจ และเชื่อว่าความไม่มั่นคงนี้จะกลายเป็นบทเรียนสำคัญที่ทำให้คุณเติบโตและแข็งแกร่งขึ้นในอนาคต

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