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The more relationships, the more worthless.

Had a relationship in the past.

The more days the relationship increases in its own worthlessness.

What kind of relationship do you experience?

I'll tell you.

The story starts with nothing, we don't know yet.

Come to sit and review

We've always been a hundred and a hundred.

But the other side is declining.

At the beginning, it felt like the relationship was starting to change.

The other side began to ignore us.

Not interested in that is not interested in feelings or anything

Giving value, having time, being together.

It's getting less and less.

What activities have been done and happy?

It was starting to change.

Become us always trying to approach him.

Become him who relegates us quietly, little by little.

From not answering each other for half a day, answer

Reasoned to work

But for us, when he answered, we answered well.

It's not that we don't work, but we divide our time into

As a result of not answering each other, half a day gradually moved to 1 day.

From one day to one week.

But the answer was just a refund, a picture of a remittance slip, and a picture of how much money was left, like writing it in his notes.

After that, it started moving for a month.

Waiting to send messages, thinking he might be busy, but we're sending them harder and harder to chat, and it's like breaking up quietly.

Break up without using the word quit

To ask anyone to comment

Take a chat to see

That this situation happened

About this story.

How is it?

Each also commented that

Like breaking up

But the breakup that doesn't say break up

Most of it applies to people talking.

The type that doesn't want to talk is gone.

But this is a girlfriend

Boyfriends who are dating like boyfriends are not dating like people talking.

Many people seem confused about this relationship.

The other side didn't communicate anything.

And we communicate, nothing improves.

But we still have a beautiful world with love

In the end, it has to end. In the last eight or nine months, we have to be patient, patient, wait, cry or tell, nothing is better.

For 8-9 months, it's been so torturous.

We are patient people.

We are still hopeful people.

So it makes us wait eight to nine months.

But in the end, it had to end with all we did, it was worthless. Everything.

This taught me that if we have a relationship and have this kind of worthlessness with anyone, we will break up with that person without paying attention because we choose to love ourselves rather than love the person they do not value us.

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2025/9/12 Edited to

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