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Tired of letting your insecurities pick your outfit

? Same.

JUST A REMINDER:

Your stomach isn’t ruining the outfit.

Your arms aren’t ruining the outfit.

Your thighs aren’t ruining the outfit.

They are the outfit. And they deserve to show up.

Here’s a complication of work looks I’ve worn recently that helped me feel confident without trying to shrink myself.

Because we’re done dressing to disappear, and we sure as hell are done not dressing the way we want.

#midsizefashion

#midsizeoutfits

#9to5style

#ootdmidsize

#realisticfashion

#curvyfashion

2025/7/10 Edited to

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