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A hard truth on the healing journey is realizing that a narcissist may never forgive you for what they did to you.

They may never take accountability.

They may never accept the truth.

But that burden was never yours to carry.

Stop waiting for understanding from someone committed to misunderstanding you. Healing doesn’t require their apology or closure — it requires surrender.

Give it to God.

God sees you. God knows the truth. God is your vindication, your peace, and your healer.

When God closes doors you keep trying to explain yourself in, it’s not punishment — it’s protection.

You don’t lose when you walk away.

You don’t lose when you choose peace.

You heal.

Release what you’ll never receive from them and trust that God will restore what was broken and lead you into freedom.

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