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We don't need to explain ourselves to everyone.🌱🤍

Not everyone...

Will look at the world from the same angle as us

Not everyone...

Will understand what we found

And it's okay.

Something in life.

You don't need an explanation.

Just so we know

What we did... It was the best at that time.

That's enough. 🤍

Growth

It's not about making everyone understand us.

But it is that we "understand ourselves" more.

And choose to store heart power

To give you something really important. 💛

_ Hidden I

🌿

# Develop yourself

# Love yourself more

# Set boundaries for yourself

# Don't explain everything

# Heal heart

# Grow together

# Good ideas

# selfgrowth

# Healing journey

# day 69

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... Read moreในชีวิตประจำวัน เรามักจะเจอกับสถานการณ์ที่ทำให้เรารู้สึกว่าต้องอธิบายตัวเองเพื่อให้ผู้อื่นเข้าใจตัวตนหรือการตัดสินใจของเรา แต่จริง ๆ แล้ว การพยายามอธิบายตัวเองให้ทุกคนเข้าใจนั้นเป็นเรื่องที่ทุกคนไม่จำเป็นต้องทำเสมอไป เพราะแต่ละคนมีมุมมองและประสบการณ์ที่แตกต่างกัน การยึดมั่นว่าทุกคนจะต้องเข้าใจเราอาจสร้างความเครียดและความไม่สบายใจโดยไม่จำเป็น สิ่งที่สำคัญกว่าคือการเข้าใจและยอมรับตัวเองในแต่ละช่วงเวลาของชีวิต ไม่ว่าจะเป็นความผิดพลาดหรือการตัดสินใจที่เราเคยทำไปแล้ว การยอมรับว่า "สิ่งที่เราทำดีที่สุดแล้วในตอนนั้น" ช่วยให้เรารู้สึกสงบและเห็นคุณค่าของตัวเองมากขึ้น นอกจากนี้ การตั้งขอบเขตให้กับตัวเองเพื่อรักษาพลังใจไม่ให้กระจัดกระจายกับการต้องทำให้คนอื่นเข้าใจ นับเป็นทักษะที่ช่วยให้เราโฟกัสกับสิ่งที่สำคัญจริง ๆ ในชีวิต เช่น การพัฒนาตัวเอง การรักตัวเอง และการฮีลใจ ซึ่งเป็นกระบวนการเติบโตทางจิตใจที่ต้องใช้เวลาและความอดทน จากประสบการณ์ส่วนตัว การเลือกที่จะไม่อธิบายทุกอย่างและให้อิสระกับตัวเองได้เป็นคนที่ไม่ต้องสมบูรณ์แบบนั้น ทำให้รู้สึกเบาใจและมีความสุขมากขึ้น เพราะเราไม่ถูกพันธนาการด้วยความคาดหวังจากผู้อื่น และนี่คือความหมายของการเติบโตที่แท้จริง คือการเป็นเพื่อนที่ดีที่สุดของตัวเอง พร้อมรับมือกับทุกเรื่องราวในชีวิตด้วยความสงบและเข้าใจ

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