Who were you before you became a Mama?

I was an adrenaline junky adventurer on the path to being a Blackhawk Pilot. I was a free-spirit who wasn’t scared of anything & wasn’t afraid to speak my mind to anyone.

Now, I’m a mama who lives a simple and delicate life raising our babies to love Jesus.

And I don’t regret it one bit. Yes, God gave me that 6yr long dream to be a Blackhawk pilot for a reason, & that reason was that it led me straight to where I am today!!!

Don’t regret what you didn’t do with your life, if it wasn’t for those dreams (accomplished or not), you wouldn’t be where you are today, & your babies wouldn’t be here either. Living a simple life with your babies is worth celebrating!!!!

Thank you Lord for these babies, the perfect plan you have for our lives is a beautiful journey that I’m so joyful to be in. #mama #motherhood #momlife #dreams #GodsPlan

2025/3/11 Edited to

... Read moreBefore motherhood, many women embark on different adventures and dreams, often reflecting on their identities shaped by personal experiences and aspirations. It's common for new mothers to reminisce about their previous lives, evaluating how those journeys prepared them for the unique challenges of parenthood. Dreams of a career, travel, or personal achievements contribute to character development, impacting how one approaches motherhood. Embracing this past while being fully present in the moment can create a fulfilling life balance. The journey of motherhood allows for a beautiful intersection of past ambitions and present realities. It’s important to acknowledge the sacrifices and joys of this new role while cherishing previous experiences that offer wisdom and resilience. In celebrating motherhood, many emphasize the importance of community, sharing stories, and supporting one another in this profound transformation. This narrative resonates with those looking to honor their prior selves while cherishing their new identity as mothers, blending their past and present in a beautifully intricate tapestry of life.

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Just a shark obsessed broken heart girlie that was getting ready to go to The University of Hawaii for Marine Biology and then covid hit, FAFSA didn't offer as much as we thought we were getting so I stayed here. Ended up working as a garden associate at Home Depot and met the LOVE OF MY LIFE who was my coworker at the time hehe 🫶🏻 Everything happens for a reason, most of us realize what we wanted at 18 isn't what makes sense for us as adults 💙

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