Today I lost more than an aunt… I lost my best friend, my momtie, and one of the funniest people I’ve ever known.

When everyone turned their back you stood right there in my corner 🫶🏾🤎

Momtie, thank you for every laugh, every conversation, every piece of advice, and every memory. Life won’t be the same without you, but I’m so grateful for the time we had.

“Awww ok, thank you…..” 🥺

4 days agoEdited to

... Read moreLosing someone so close feeling like both a family member and a best friend is a profoundly life-changing experience. In my own life, I have found that the people we call "family" often shape us not through biology but through their unwavering support, love, and presence in our lives. The term "Momtie," a blend of mom and aunt, beautifully captures that special role someone can play, providing motherly guidance while also being a friend. One key to coping with such a loss is cherishing every shared moment—every laugh, conversation, and piece of advice. These memories become treasures that help sustain us through grief. It’s also important to recognize the unique bond that those who stand by us "when everyone turned their back" create lasting resilience and love. From the heartfelt messages in the images, it’s clear how deeply appreciated caregivers and loved ones are. Nurses and family alike are vital pillars of support, especially when life challenges us. Celebrating those who love us unconditionally reminds us to express gratitude while we still can. In my experience, sharing memories with others who knew the loved one or journaling about them can be healing. It keeps their spirit alive and allows us to reflect on the positive impact they had, even as we grieve their absence. Grief is a journey, and honoring the significant role "Momtie" had in life highlights the beauty of found family and enduring love.