things i’ve done to mourn the loss of my dog 🪽
June 1st marks a year since i lost my bestfriend & I would be lying if I said losing him has gotten better.
We got Scout when I was just 9 years old and knew him until I was 2 months away from being 21. Somehow… 11 1/2 years don’t feel like enough.
Greif is a wild thing. It’s scary, heartbreaking & feels very isolating at times, here are some things that I’ve done to help me get through the loss of my boy.
🪽 created a “memorial” shelf of my own:
i grabbed pictures, polaroids, even a little bit of his fur we were able to keep. as someone who loves making my room, MY space, this shelf really has helped me in ways i never expected
🪽 got a mini stuffed animal of him:
i feel like this was one of my best ideas. whenever i feel sad and just wish i had him again, i grab this stuffed animal and hug it, hug it as tight as i used to hug him.
🪽 i admire paw prints & his fur:
since he was a pretty big goldendoodle, i love admiring his big ol paw prints he left us with & again, the bit of fur i still have, i love holding when i feel far apart from him
🪽 custom necklace :
this was a NO BRAINER. i love jewelry and the option of getting a personalized necklace with a picture of my boy and his birthday (& unfortunately death date…) gave me alot of comfort to know, he’s always near and dear and so close to my heart.
🪽 planned the most perfect memorial tattoo:
i haven’t started my tattoo journey just yet, but i want my first to be of my bestfriend. the idea of the tattoo i put & the picture of him i put, just feels so right, and personally i would love to get asked about Scout if someone saw my tattoo :)
Pet loss is hard. Take it day by day. & let yourself miss them, they miss you too❤️
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Losing a pet can be devastating, leaving an emotional void that's particularly hard to fill. Many people find comfort in tangible remembrances. Consider creating a dedicated memorial space in your home to celebrate your dog's life. This can include their photographs, favorite toys, or even a small plant in their memory. A memorial tattoo is another poignant option; it can serve as a daily reminder of your four-legged friend and the special bond you shared. Therapeutic activities, such as writing a letter to your pet or journaling about your memories together, can also help facilitate the grieving process. Sharing your feelings in a support group for pet loss can be comforting, allowing you to connect with others who understand. Remember, everyone experiences grief differently, so allow yourself to feel and process your emotions at your own pace. Seek out resources, such as books or online forums, that offer guidance and support during this difficult time. Ultimately, it's essential to honor your dog's memory in ways that resonate with you, paving the way toward healing.
how so I get memorys of him without spending money or paw prints he's nine years old so I don't want him to leave me. so I need memory of him please tell me ideas