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My girlfriend core 💕

I win guys 🩷🩷 (keep in mind I’m bisexual and my gf is lesbian)#love #wlw #Lemon8Diary #storytime #bisexual #lesbian #relationship

so basically little backstory

I met my gf a couple years ago at a Valentine’s Day dance and at first we were just friends

I was in a very toxic relationship at the time with my bf (we call him zero) but at the time but she was always there for me

What I didn’t know what she had liked me as soon as she saw me (I’m really oblivious)

Well after a couple months I had broken up with zero she would flirt with me but not to where it was uncomfy and pressured

But again I was oblivious

Over the summer I had lost contact with her but in the start of the new school year we got back in to touch

But by the time we did I had someone new (we call him Frosty)

She played it off as she was happy but she was sad by the fact

But over time we became best friends

I talked to her everyday

I saw her everyday

we were just very close

Now a couple weeks before my birthday she had realized she was madly in love with me

But at the time I didn’t return those feelings cause I was still with frosty (she also had to confess 7 times before it registered in my brain-)

After my birthday she confessed but I rejected her but things weren’t awkward and we were still best friends

And she was mostly fine with that

But i guess those feelings didn’t go away

Now time skip to now

It had now been a year of her waiting and waiting

But I was still with frosty and happy

But then months later me and frosty broke up

Frosty was the first bf I had that wasn’t toxic

So the breakup broke me

But she was there for me

She called me or texted me for little daily mood checkups

And over time I moved on and found peace in being alone

But over some months I found myself returning those feelings for her

But I was confused and scared about it

I didn’t know if I had genuinely liked her or if I just liked her because I knew she liked me

I told myself I would wait and see what happens

But what I didn’t know was that she was trying to move on

It had been 2 months at this point

She told me she was planning on asking someone to the dance that was coming up soon

And that someone wasn’t me

And that almost tore me apart

So the next day when she was going to ask the girl I kept physically pulling her back or stalling

But every time she would ask why

I just froze

But I let her out of my sight for a second and she was already asking the girl

My heart was aching and my stomach had a pit

Later on that day I just finally told her how I felt

She said she was gonna think about it because she was kinda in Shock

But she wasn’t rejecting me

I understood so I said I would wait

I waited for hours

Later on that night she called me and just said she was madly in love with me

and that’s how me and my gf came to be

And yes she told the other girl that she couldn’t take her to the dance

Ty for reading this I know it’s long 🩷

2024/4/24 Edited to

Wow, reading back on our story, it still feels a bit surreal how my amazing girlfriend and I finally got together! It was a long road, full of twists and turns, but honestly, her incredible spirit and unwavering dedication are what truly made our "girlfriend core" so strong. When people ask me what it's like to have an "energetic girlfriend," it’s so much more than just someone who's always on the go or super bubbly – though she definitely has her moments! For me, an energetic girlfriend is someone who brings a vibrant, living energy into the relationship itself. It’s the kind of person who shows up for you, not just physically, but emotionally, day in and day out. Remember those daily mood checkups she gave me after my breakup with Frosty? That wasn't just being nice; that was her energy pouring into my well-being, helping me heal and find my peace again. It’s that persistence, that "I love you always and remember soon ill be able to sneek over and we can do crazy shit" kind of enthusiasm that makes every day brighter. Her energy isn't just for adventures; it's also for the quiet moments, like "want to study together but pay no attention to our homework," finding joy even in mundane tasks. What really defines an "energetic girlfriend" in my experience are a few key qualities. First, there's that incredible persistence and patience. She waited for me, she confessed multiple times, and even when I was oblivious, her feelings didn't wane. That kind of emotional stamina is truly a gift. Then there's the profound emotional support – being my rock when I felt broken, celebrating my small victories, and always having my back. It’s knowing that "HA Ah war is over i see" means she's there to help me through any conflict or challenge. Another huge part is the enthusiasm for a shared life. It’s not just about what *I* want or what she wants, but what we can build together. Things like "on my way with some food" or talking about future plans like "your my life and soon will be my wife," show a genuine excitement for our journey as a couple. This forward-looking, "let's do this!" attitude keeps our relationship fresh and exciting. It's about being present and engaged with each other, making even the simplest moments feel special because you're both invested. So, how can you cultivate this kind of vibrant, energetic connection in your own relationship? From my perspective, it starts with truly seeing and appreciating your partner's unique energy. Actively listen to their dreams and concerns, just like she listened when I finally opened up. Look for opportunities to share experiences, whether it's a spontaneous adventure or simply enjoying quiet time together, like that "want to study together" moment. Small gestures of love, like a surprise text or bringing their favorite snack, can really fuel that emotional energy. Most importantly, communicate openly and honestly about your feelings, your hopes, and your fears. Creating a space where you both feel safe to share and grow is essential. My girlfriend's energy has been the heartbeat of our connection, making our "girlfriend core" incredibly robust. She truly is my "goddess of a girl friend" and I randomly just fall more in love with her every single day because of the incredible spirit she brings into my life. It’s a powerful reminder that sometimes, the greatest love stories are forged through patience, unwavering support, and a whole lot of energetic love.

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THIS IS SO FUCKING CUTE WHAT! me personally i’m struggling with my sexuality. a year ago i wasn’t sure of my sexuality. but months ago i kept looking at girls and calling them pretty and falling for them and i kept listening to lesbian music and watching lesbian music and making fake scenarios of making out with girls.

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