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The reason why people who never change keep learning


The reason why people who never change keep learning

Prepare to go up in flames,

I'm gonna be honest.

a condition that can't change without continuing to receive coaching and counseling

It seems to be growing, but it has stopped.

The old me was like that too.

I'm learning,

It has also become possible to verbalize it.

But the reality doesn't change.

Why?

The habit of looking for answers outside

Because it stays there forever.

School education,

They only teach you the ability to get the right answer all the time.

But what we really need is

The power to choose in the absence of the right answer.

Without this,

・ Lost what to do

I wonder whose words to believe.

・ Keep learning all the time

I can't get out of this loop.

In this era,

AI will give you the answer.

So what is required of humans?

That's

How do you think, how do you choose?

It's here, isn't it?

What i'm doing is.

It's not about teaching skills.

Remaking the way of thinking itself

It is.

So, uh,

Even if you don't ask someone

You will be able to choose for yourself.

When I came this far,

For the first time, reality begins to change.

You are now

which one is it?

Even though I keep learning, it doesn't change

・ I choose and proceed by myself

Let me know in the comments.

Self-growth

# mindset

# change your life

The Power of Thinking

# independence

5 days agoEdited to

... Read more私自身も同じような経験をしました。始めは頻繁にコーチングやカウンセリングに頼り、新しいスキルや知識を学び続けていましたが、現実はほとんど変わりませんでした。それは「答えを外に求める癖」が抜け切れていなかったからだと思います。 学校教育は確かに「答えのある教育」が中心で、1+1=2のような明確な正解を求める訓練が主でした。しかし、社会に出ると正解は一つではなく、ケースバイケースが多いことに気づかされます。そのため、真に必要とされるのは「正解がない中で自分で判断し選ぶ力」なのです。 私の場合、脳科学や心理学、スピリチュアルビジネスの要素を取り入れ、自分の考え方そのものを再構築することに注力しました。そうすることで、誰かの言葉をそのまま信じるのではなく、自分の価値観や状況に照らして判断できるようになりました。結果、以前のように学び続けるだけのループから抜け出し、現実も少しずつ変化していきました。 また、AIが多くの答えを提供してくれる現代だからこそ、人間に求められるのは「どう考えて、どう選ぶか」という思考プロセスと選択の質だと痛感しています。自分で選択し行動できる自立した思考力を身につけることで、学びや成長はより効果的で意味のあるものになります。 皆さんも、自分の現状を振り返り「ずっと学び続けるループ」に陥っていないかどうかを確認してみてください。もしそうなら、まずは「答えを外に求める癖」を見直し、「どう考え、どう選ぶか」という考え方を身につけることに目を向けてみましょう。 この過程は簡単ではありませんが、自分で選択し行動できる力を手に入れた時、初めて現実の変化が訪れるはずです。ぜひ、自分なりの解決策を見つけるための第一歩として、今回の内容がためになれば幸いです。

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