This too shall pass but when?
They say this too shall pass—but when exactly?
I mean, even my Uber Eats gives me an estimated delivery time. Even Google Maps lets me know how many minutes till I arrive. But Life leaves me hanging with No timeline, no updates.
When does it pass?
When does the season of doing a job I have no business doing just to survive finally end?
When does the struggle stop?
When does the dream of leaving my country for a “better life” stop feeling like I traded one set of problems for another?
Because no one tells you that in trying to build a life abroad, you might first have to break yourself down. That before you even get to start living, you’ll need to prove, apply, wait, sacrifice, bend, and sometimes even start from below zero.
The hoops you jump through just to go from immigrant to permanent resident…is so exhausting.
I know this will pass. I do.
But right now, I wish I just knew when. #immigrantstories
The feeling of waiting without clear answers is something many immigrants and people facing life transitions understand deeply. Just as Uber provides estimated times to keep you informed, life’s unpredictable challenges often come without any clear timeline, which can make endurance feel endless. From my experience, this uncertainty can be draining, especially when you're pushed into roles or jobs that don't align with your skills or dreams just to survive. The process of settling in a new country often means navigating frustrating bureaucracy, starting over from scratch, and sacrificing comfort for hope. The emotional toll can be heavy, leaving you wondering when the struggle will ease. One thing I've learned is to find strength in small, measurable progress—even if it’s not obvious at first. Celebrate milestones like gaining permanent residence or settling into a community. Sharing your story with others who understand, like in immigrant support forums, can provide comfort and practical advice on managing the waiting game. If you’re struggling to see the end of this challenging phase, try to set personal goals unrelated to timelines, such as learning new skills or connecting with supportive people. Sometimes, focusing on what we can control helps lessen the weight of uncertainty. Remember, while life doesn’t offer an estimated arrival time like an app, the perseverance you build along the way will prepare you for the better days ahead. This too will pass, even if the 'when' remains unknown for now.
