Just a rant..
I’m ranting about life. Mine specifically. I don’t expect anyone to care but it’s nice to get out.
It feels impossible to live. Like actually enjoy life. Me and my fiancé have been together about 4 years now and we have a daughter that’s about to be 1. Some things happened and stuff was said. I decided for us that we needed to get our stuff together. We’ve been living with family for the majority of time we’ve been together and have gotten nowhere in life. I’m not sure if it’s the economy or us, maybe a little of both. But we separated from eachother so we could work towards the future. We both had cars and lost them, and we haven’t had our own place so that’s what we’re working towards.
But why does everything feel impossible? Getting a car seems so far away cause I make not even 1k a month working 4 days a week. On top of diapers and wipes and formula, yes her dad pays for it most of the time but let’s be real we struggle. We have to eat too and give people gas money for rides and rent. Not to mention neither of us having friends that are able to just give us a ride whenever. The cheapest houses in my town are 1k or more a month for a 1 bed 1 bath. How do we even manage something like that. Weve tried saving but something always comes up or we spend it on something to make food. It’s so far away and horrible for both of us being apart. I think it’s great that people get on this app or any app and ask for help and they get thousands of dollars from their followers. I know gods helping them out and that’s true my beautiful. I pray one day we get there. We finally are set and stress free from wondering about our funds, when the next paycheck comes to get thru the next 2 weeks. It really is a hard life for a lot of us out there and I hope everyone succeeds in life. If you managed to stay thru this post i appreciate you listening. I appreciate you and I’m proud of you and your small victories today.
That’s all for my rant I gotta put my daughter down for a nap😂 y’all have a good day or night!
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Life does feel impossible to live sometimes for sure. I know maybe you didnt expect a reply to your rant but I feel drawn to those who need encouragement. I feel I should tell you that even when life feels the way it's feeling right now, that God is with you even if you can't feel him, he is. There's a lot of material things in this world that are needed to survive in it and I know that a lot of times they feel impossible to obtain. Especially when things seem to not be going along with our time frame. The stress of this world can feel absolutely unbearable at times but you've got this. Sometimes our prayers feel in vain, like they're not being answered, or we're simply unheard. But, he hears them all, even the silent ones, and in the Lords perfect timing everything will fall into place. Psalm 56:8 and Isaiah 40:31. He leaves the 99 to help the 1(matt 18:12-14). I encourage you to keep faith through all situations even as hard as it may be and I pray that you find success with making it to where you and your family needs to be💕