When it comes to random messages from people I don't know, I realized early on that you don't owe anyone a response, especially if the messages feel disrespectful or invasive. One thing I always do is listen to my gut — if someone’s vibe feels off or if they’re being pushy, it’s totally okay to ignore or block them. I also found that setting clear boundaries helps a lot. For example, I might have a pinned comment or status saying this isn’t a dating site, so people know where I stand. It’s amazing how many people respect that once it’s clear. Sometimes, people get upset if you don’t reply immediately or at all. I remind myself that my time and mental energy are valuable. It’s not my responsibility to engage with everyone who messages me. If you’re struggling with the pressure to respond, try this: take a screenshot or save the message, then step back and assess if replying will add positivity or stress to your day. For me, it usually doesn’t, so silence is the best reply. Also, beware of those who record your chats or try to provoke you. If that happens, blocking and reporting is your best defense. Protect your peace online just as you would in real life. Remember, you get to choose who you talk to, and not replying is a valid response. Your inbox shouldn’t dictate your mood or sense of self-worth!