MOM HOT TAKE: we want the crying to stop too.

As a parent who’s navigated countless flights with little ones, I completely understand the anxiety that comes with a crying baby on a plane or in a busy airport. It's a challenging situation for everyone, but believe me, we parents are literally trying our best to soothe our kids and ensure a peaceful journey for all. Here are some extra tips I've picked up, both for fellow parents and for kind passengers wondering how to 'deal with' the situation. For Parents: Proactive Steps for Smoother Travels Firstly, preparation is your superpower! Before you even leave for the airport, pack a dedicated "airplane bag" with all the essentials. This includes plenty of snacks (even ones they don't usually get, for novelty!), a variety of small, quiet toys they haven't seen in a while, comfort items like a favorite blanket or stuffed animal, and enough milk, formula, or pacifiers. For takeoff and landing, the change in cabin pressure is often the culprit for ear pain. Encourage swallowing by offering a bottle, pacifier, or the breast. This has been a lifesaver for me! I also try to time flights around nap times, if possible, hoping for a sleepy journey, though it doesn't always work out. During the flight, if a meltdown starts, my go-to is usually a quick change of scenery. A gentle walk down the aisle can sometimes do wonders. Distraction is also key; pulling out a new toy or a favorite book can divert their attention, even if just for a few minutes. Remember, crying is communication – they might be tired, hungry, bored, or have ear pain. Our job as parents is to try and decipher that, all while managing our own stress. It’s hard, but we're doing it! For Fellow Passengers: How You Can 'Deal With' a Crying Baby Now, for those of you without kids on board, I know it can be frustrating. I used to fly kid-free too! But remember, as the original article emphasizes, parents are often the most stressed people on that plane. Instead of feeling annoyed, consider that *it's public transportation*, and sometimes little humans just can't regulate their emotions or understand complex situations. My biggest tip for passengers? Invest in good noise-cancelling headphones. They are truly a game-changer and allow you to create your own quiet space. If you're feeling particularly gracious, a simple smile or a kind word to a struggling parent can mean the world. Trust me, we notice the glares, and they only add to the immense pressure we already feel. Instead of thinking "stop glaring," a small gesture of understanding can actually help calm the parent, which in turn helps them soothe their child more effectively. Offering to help grab something from an overhead bin, or just not staring, are small acts of grace that benefit everyone. We want the crying to stop just as much, if not more, than you do. A little empathy goes a long way in making air travel a smoother experience for all.