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How I learned to love myself

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I used to be my own worst critic. I think we all are. My oldest child has humbled me and made me love who I see in the mirror.

Why? Look at these pictures of her and myself when I was younger.

Everything I was, is who she is. Everything that I am, is who she will be.

She has all of the best qualities of me that I use to dislike about myself.

When I criticize myself, I criticize her. So now, I work harder to love myself and take care of myself, because she is a reflection of me.

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The journey to self-love can be challenging, but it’s essential for our well-being. Many people struggle with self-criticism, often basing their self-worth on societal standards or past traumas. However, learning to love ourselves can transform our lives and those we influence. In reflection, one must realize that our children often reflect our insecurities. This realization can encourage us to become better versions of ourselves, as they observe and learn from how we treat ourselves. To cultivate self-love, consider incorporating daily affirmations, mindfulness practices, or journaling about your strengths. Surrounding yourself with positive influences, and engaging in activities that bring joy, can foster a healthier self-image. Remember, the path to self-acceptance is not linear; embrace the journey and understand that progress is more important than perfection. By prioritizing self-care, you not only enhance your own life but also set a profound example for the younger generations watching us.

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this is beautiful and I am so happy you learned to loved yourself more. both of you are beautiful

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