Happy 1st Birthday to the We Do Not Care Club™ 💕 Together, we created more than a moment. We created a sisterhood. A place where women can laugh, heal, vent, cry, grow, evolve, and simply be themselves without apology. This past year has reminded me that even in a world filled with noise,

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Wednesday makes ONE YEAR since I sat in my car and said “We Do Not Care.” And somehow… that one little video turned into a sisterhood, a movement, friendships, healing, laughter, truth, and millions of women finally realizing they were never alone. So Philadelphia… we’re celebrating WDNC™

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We. Do. Not. Care. That’s the message. All New & Existing members of the We Do Not Care Club, please post in the comments what We Do Not Care about today. BE SURE YOU ARE FOLLOWING me to stay up to date on what’s happening in the WDNC Club😎 #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #justbeingmelani

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We. Do. Not. Care. That’s the message. All new and existing members, go ahead and put what We Do Not Care about today in the comments. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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San Diego • April 28th

San Diego… I’m coming April 28th. Tickets are limited. (Link in bio) Let’s Color, Chit Chat and talk Smack about Midlife. 🎟️ I’ll see you in the room.

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We’re all dealing with trauma in some form—sometimes our own, sometimes others’. What’s something you’ve recognized in yourself or others? No advice—just shared perspectives. #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #wdnc

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We’re all dealing with trauma in some form—sometimes our own, sometimes others’. What’s something you’ve recognized in yourself or others? No advice—just shared perspectives. #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #wdnc

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We Do Not Care. That’s the message. All New and Existing members, please post in the comments what We Do Not Care about today. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #justbeingmelani

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Replying to @lala.mama2020#WDNCClub I completely, 1000% agree with you. I’m off, but something is causing me to be off off. Sisters, anybody else Off Off lately? #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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We Do Not Care. That’s the message. All new & existing members, please put in the comments what We Do Not Care about anymore. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #wedonotcareclub

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Preorder our very 1st WDNC Coloring Book! I designed every page, so yes… it is a HOT MESS and a GOOD TIME 😂😂. All New and Existing Members put in the comments what We Do Not Care about today #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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If one WDNC Sister goes to jail… we all going. It’s called community. But listen… we need to be prepared. Tell me in the comments — what’s your WDNC jail necessity? Mine: • Cooling pillow (because hot flashes don’t stop for jail) • Bonnet (because we will not be struggling AND frizzy)

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This is me, Melani—showing my arms, stretch marks, and all. For years, I hid them, afraid of what others might think. But on page 91 of the WDNC Handbook, I said, “Arms is arms,” and I finally believed it. Today, I’m showing them—and it’s liberating. To my sisters: Whatever you’ve been hiding, you

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Sisters, sometimes the strongest thing you can do is press pause. Put yourself in timeout for a moment. Step away from the noise, breathe, and gather yourself. Reset your mind and remember… you are still in charge of you. #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause #wdnc

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We. Do. Not. Care. Men’s Workplace Edition. @Halle Berry this ADHD Sister was on the edge of her seat!! I won’t tell it, but I Love your response (53)😎 #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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Hearing my husband chew puts me in a mood? Sisters, who else hates to hear mouth noises? 🥹🥹 #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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Atlanta… my hometown stop had me emotional. To everyone who knew me before the lights—thank you for being my foundation. And having @therealdrjackie moderate made the night even more special. WDNC Sisters, I love you. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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Top right corner 😮 I know her😂💖💖 Thanking God for it all. #wdnc #Perimenopause #Menopause #Postmenopause

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I’m back!!! Now let’s continue to put the world on notice! All new and existing members, please@put in the comments what We Do Not Care about today so that we can add those to our list. #wdnc #perimenopause #menopause #postmenopause

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