Showing up when you're world is falling apart

This workout was hard and not even because of the actual workout.

I'm in this phase of navigating grief after my granny passed away.

Some days are better than others but this day I was struggling really bad and couldn't shake it.

I literally stopped mid workout to sage and meditate just to be able to finish the workout.

I share this to say...every day is not going to be perfect. You aren't going to be motivated or inspired. Your heart will hurt.

Failure and giving up hurts too though. So don't give up on you. Stop..refocus...and keep going.

Love and light to you guys !

#healthylifestyle2024 #fitnessmotivation fitnessinspiration #lemon8fitness #legday #legdayworkout #homeworkout #homeworkouts #workoutathome #goodvibes #healingjourney #healing

2024/1/22 Edited to

... Read moreGrief can be an overwhelming experience, often leaving individuals feeling lost and unmotivated. However, integrating physical activity into your routine can serve as a powerful tool for healing. When faced with the emotional weight of loss, exercise not only improves physical health but also elevates mood through the release of endorphins. Many people find that engaging in activities like yoga or meditation can provide solace and clarity during difficult times. Additionally, creating a supportive fitness routine can significantly aid in mental wellness. Setting small, attainable goals and finding a workout community can foster a sense of belonging and reduce feelings of isolation. Utilizing resources such as online workout classes or community fitness events can help maintain motivation and inspire others who may be dealing with their own struggles. Remember, it's crucial to allow yourself to feel and process your emotions. Some days may be tougher than others, but perseverance is key. The journey is about progress, not perfection; honor your pace and be gentle with yourself during this healing journey. Rediscovering strength and positivity through fitness can indeed be a transformative experience, offering not just physical benefits but emotional resilience as well.

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I needed these affirmative words so bad I can’t even explain it Thank you for sharing your struggles while on your journey to your best you. Sometimes it just feels good to know your not the only one going through what you ur going thru. Keep going 🥰❤️ And like I said much needed post. Peace and blessings to you

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Sending my sincere condolences and prayers to you and yours ❤️

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