⚠️ La conversation est sortie de son contexte. Mes propos ne sont pas dirigés vers elle.
J'étais en train de discuter avec elle d'une femme que j'ai eue en rendez-vous d'appel et qui avait ce critère là.
Ce n'est donc pas la personne que vous voyez sur la vidéo.
In my experience navigating relationships, especially when it comes to dating men who earn over 10,000 euros a month, I've realized just how rare and complex this group really is. Less than 2% of men reach this income level, and when you factor out those who are married or do not wish to marry, you’re looking at closer to 1%. This creates a highly competitive dating landscape for women who are seeking these men. What struck me most is learning that these top earners often have unique criteria for choosing partners, which go beyond superficial qualities. Some women might focus on criteria like youth or appearance, but many of these men look for exceptional qualities—qualities that can include maturity, shared life goals, and the ability to contribute meaningfully to the relationship. Another interesting point is the expectation some men have regarding what a woman brings to the table. Although it may sound transactional at first, it’s more about mutual understanding and respect. For example, a partner who can support the man’s ambitions and also nurture their own goals often stands out. It's important to recognize the influence of social media here. Many people get caught in illusions created online, distorting what real relationships look like. The values promoted there often differ from the realities faced by both men and women in serious dating contexts. Personally, I believe that being conscious of what your criteria truly mean and imply—whether as a man or a woman—is critical. Setting unrealistic or unclear expectations can lead to frustration and missed opportunities. Instead, understanding both your own values and those of potential partners helps in building authentic and meaningful connections. In the end, the key takeaway is about consciousness and clarity. If you understand the rarity of the top 1% and what this implies for relationship dynamics, you can better prepare yourself emotionally and mentally. This awareness also encourages respect for the complex realities behind meeting and forming bonds with high-achieving individuals, moving beyond surface-level judgments to deeper understanding.
