If I Knew Then What I Know Now

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I turned 42 on June. I feel like 42 is the new 20. When my mom turned 40, I was 10. One of her friends gave her a mug that said: Being 40 Means Being Twice as Sexy as You Were at 20. Oh how true that feels now! I like each new decade as it comes.

If I knew when I was younger how my life would be today, I would tell my younger self to LIGHTEN UP!!! The uptightness of younger me has given me a health issue I will likely never be able to get rid of: Multiple Sclerosis.

Part of lightening up is not caring so much what others think of you. Other people probably weren’t thinking about me as much as I thought they were.

I wouldn’t be as judgmental of others.

If I knew then what the medicine I THOUGHT I had to have to feel better would do to me later, I would not have taken it. That mainly goes for birth control pills.

I would have begun taking care of my body earlier. Exercising regularly. Not eating so much junk food. We call it junk food, but we still put it in our bodies!

I would have saved money. Oh how I wish I had saved more money back then!

What are some things you wish YOU had learned earlier in life?

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2024/8/4 Edited to

... Read moreWhen I mentioned Multiple Sclerosis earlier, I know it might have seemed like just another point, but for me, receiving that diagnosis at 38 was a profound shock. It wasn't just a medical term; it was a real wake-up call that shifted my perspective on everything. Before then, I was so caught up in the daily grind, often stressed and worried about things that, in hindsight, seem so trivial. The initial symptoms were subtle, numbness and fatigue, which I initially dismissed. Getting a definitive diagnosis after various tests, including an MRI, was both terrifying and, strangely, a relief to finally have an answer. It's easy to look back now and say 'lighten up,' but dealing with a chronic illness like MS often forces you to do just that, whether you want to or not. One of the biggest lessons I've learned, especially when facing MS, has been the importance of actively advocating for my health and embracing treatments that can make a real difference. That's precisely where Kesimpta (ofatumumab) came into my life. After discussing various options with my neurologist, we decided Kesimpta was the right path for me. The thought of giving myself injections initially felt incredibly daunting. I remember my younger self being absolutely squeamish about needles, often looking away even for routine blood draws! But here I am, an adult, confidently using the Kesimpta injection pen as part of my monthly routine. The first few times, I was undeniably nervous. I'd read all the instructions, watched videos, and still felt a knot in my stomach. However, the support I received from my healthcare team, including a Kesimpta patient ambassador, made it much more manageable. They walked me through the process, answered all my questions, and reassured me. The pen itself is designed for ease of use, making the self-administration process much less intimidating than I'd imagined. It’s a small, pre-filled device that delivers the medication quickly and efficiently. It truly is incredible what you can adapt to when your health depends on it. My younger self truly wouldn't believe I can give myself shots with no problem today! Managing MS with Kesimpta has given me a significant sense of control and hope. It's not a cure, but it's a vital part of my treatment plan that helps to slow the progression of the disease and reduce the frequency and severity of relapses. This has freed up so much mental space that used to be consumed by worry and uncertainty. Now, I can focus more on living life to the fullest, pursuing hobbies, spending time with loved ones, and just generally being present, exactly as I urged my younger self to do. This journey with MS and Kesimpta has truly reinforced all the other life lessons I shared earlier – the profound importance of taking care of my body, not dwelling on others' opinions, being less judgmental, and finding joy in the present moment. It’s a powerful testament to how our health decisions and experiences ripple through every aspect of our lives, shaping our perspectives and priorities. If you're navigating a similar path with MS, exploring treatment options, or just facing a health challenge, know that you're not alone. Sharing our stories helps us all feel more connected and empowered. What health challenges have taught you the most about yourself and life?

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