When you find a conversation like this, try to change the way you listen!!

Want a relationship to improve? Let's start with the right "how to listen"!

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Many times we talk to other people and don't understand each other, although it may not be the person who speaks, but the person who listens. Today we will share that if we meet three conversations like this, how should we change the way we listen to make everything better?

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1. "My story is terrible."

The wrong way to listen: Hurry up and judge "this is it" or "I've met harder" or find a solution for him.

The Right Way to Listen: Listen carefully, focus on his feelings, not just the stories he tells, use words like "We understand how bad it is" or "You feel terrible, don't you?"

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2. "I think it must be like this."

The Wrong Way to Listen: Listen to Wait for a Disputed Beat, or Immediately Make a Different Comment

The Right Way to Listen: Listen to finish understanding his point of view. Maybe ask questions to understand more deeply, such as "Why do you think that?" or "What makes that decision?"

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3. "I don't know what to do anymore."

The Wrong Way to Listen: Hurry up and give advice like "It'll be better" or "You have to do that."

The right way to listen: Listen with compassion and signal that we are always here, like, "It's okay, we're next to you," or "Think about it one by one."

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Changing the way you listen in each situation will make relationships incredibly better. Apply it and know that just as we change, the whole world can change.

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