as I turn 26 this weekend, I sit back and reflect on the younger version of me. A little girl who was sexually abused very young & it changed her forever. For most of my life, I carried that pain masked as anger, depression, shame, & keeping it inside.
the past 5 years I have fought hard to forgive and heal from this. years of therapy, obsessed with self help books, & having to relive it over & over again to continue to face it head-on. as i turn 26, I look around at my life and everything I’ve built through the trauma.
Falling in love, building a family, having friends who genuinely love me, soon to be married, using fitness to cope and build a community. My younger self would be happy to know we fought back like hell to heal and there is peace here, and despite everything we made it to 26. 🤍
#childhoodtraumasurvivor #innerchildhealing #foryou #explore #26thbirthday
Healing from childhood trauma is a deeply personal journey that often requires immense courage and support. For those of us who have faced such painful experiences, it is not uncommon to carry the weight of emotions like anger, shame, and depression into adulthood. What I’ve found invaluable is the combination of seeking professional therapy and exploring self-help resources. Therapy provides a safe space to confront and process traumatic memories, while books and community groups offer perspectives and practical tools that empower continued growth. Fitness has also been a transformative outlet for me—not just for physical health, but as a way to reclaim control over my body and find a supportive community. Exercise routines can help shift focus, boost mood, and cultivate resilience, which is essential when healing from trauma. Building genuine relationships, whether friendship or romantic, adds layers of love and acceptance that counteract long-standing inner wounds. An important part of this healing is learning to comfort the inner child who suffered silently. Affirmations such as "you’re safe now" and "you are loved" resonate deeply when repeated during moments of self-reflection or journaling. These reassurances counteract the fears and pain carried for so long, allowing peace to take root. I encourage anyone navigating this path to remember that healing is not linear—it involves setbacks and progress. Yet, reaching milestones like turning 26 with a renewed sense of self and hope is a powerful testament to human resilience. Sharing our stories and connecting with others who understand can lighten the burden and foster community healing. You are not alone, and with patience and support, peace and joy are attainable beyond the trauma.

































































































