I TURNED 30!!!

OMG, hitting the big 3-0 feels absolutely incredible! It’s not just a number; it’s a whole new vibe, a #NEWERA where I’m suddenly allergic to bare minimum energy and only here for boss activities. Looking back, I’ve been reflecting on what truly prepared me for this exciting chapter of curating the life I deserve, especially for all you amazing women out there approaching or navigating your own journey to 30. While I’m officially in my thirties, I wanted to share some personal insights on what I believe are crucial 'things to do before 30' that can set you up for a powerful, fulfilling decade ahead. First up, and this one’s huge for my fellow #mompreneurs or aspiring ones: Cultivate Financial Savvy & Career Clarity. Before 30, I really focused on understanding my finances – not just earning, but saving, investing, and planning for the future. It’s about building a foundation that gives you freedom and options. For career, it’s not necessarily about having it all figured out, but about understanding what truly ignites your passion and purpose. Experiment, learn, and don't be afraid to pivot. Knowing your value and what kind of work truly energizes you is key to developing that 'boss energy' mindset. Next, Master the Art of Self-Discovery and Boundary Setting. This is where the 'allergic to bare minimum energy' comes in! Your twenties are a time for growth, and part of that is learning who you are, what you stand for, and what you won't tolerate. It’s about understanding your worth, setting healthy boundaries in relationships (both personal and professional), and saying 'no' to things that drain your energy. Prioritizing self-love and self-respect before 30 lays the groundwork for truly thriving. I learned that my peace and energy are non-negotiable. Prioritize Your Health and Well-being. This isn't just about looking good, but feeling good from the inside out. Establishing sustainable fitness routines, understanding nutrition, and crucially, nurturing your mental health are game-changers. Therapy, meditation, or simply finding healthy outlets for stress are invaluable. Your body and mind are your most important assets for conquering your thirties with that 'boss energy.' Embrace Continuous Learning and New Experiences. Don't let your education stop after college! Before 30, I made sure to challenge myself, learn new skills, travel, and step out of my comfort zone. Whether it’s picking up a new language, starting a side hustle, or exploring different cultures, these experiences broaden your perspective and build resilience. They contribute massively to the richness of the life you're curating. Finally, Nurture Meaningful Relationships. While it’s important to set boundaries, it’s equally vital to invest in relationships that uplift and support you. Surround yourself with people who celebrate your wins, challenge you to grow, and truly understand your journey. These connections become your cheerleading squad as you step into your new era of boss activities. Turning 30 has been such a powerful shift for me, and I truly believe much of this 'new era' feeling comes from cultivating these aspects in my earlier years. It’s never too late to start, but laying this groundwork before 30 can make your entry into this incredible decade feel truly empowering and full of limitless possibilities!