Automatically translated.View original post

Ep.2 Why does my heart have to love? Let's see...

7/29 Edited to

... Read moreหลังจากที่ได้ลองใช้ชีวิตในโลกของสายฝอมาสักพัก สิ่งที่รู้สึกชัดเจนมากคือ "ใจรัก" เป็นสิ่งสำคัญที่สุด เพราะต้องเจอการเปลี่ยนแปลงที่หลายอย่างตั้งแต่เรื่องอาหารการกิน ที่บางคนกินง่ายโชคดีไป แต่บางคนกินยากมาก อย่างเช่นบางคนไม่กินเนื้อติดกระดูกเลย หรือแม้แต่บางคนไม่ให้เรากินของตัวเอง สิ่งเหล่านี้ทำให้ใจต้องแข็งแรงพอที่จะปรับตัว ประสบการณ์จริงคือ เราต้องมีสิทธิ์เลือกอย่างมีสติว่าจะไปต่อหรือพอแค่นี้ หากปรับตัวได้ก็ลองทำ แต่ถ้าปรับไม่ได้ก็ต้องกล้าปัดความคิดเดิมและเปลี่ยนใหม่ เพราะการใช้ชีวิตในสายฝอนั้นไม่ได้เป็นเรื่องง่าย ต้องเรียนรู้และเข้าใจความเป็นไปของคนรอบข้างด้วย ไม่เพียงแค่เรื่องกิน แต่ยังรวมถึงไลฟ์สไตล์และนิสัยที่ต้องเข้ากันได้ เพราะความต่างในสังคมสายฝอบางครั้งก็มากเกินกว่าจะละเลยได้ ดังนั้นใจที่รักและเปิดรับความเปลี่ยนแปลง จึงเป็นกุญแจสำคัญในการอยู่รอดและเติบโตในสายฝอ

Related posts

A white bookshelf filled with various books, with a large text overlay stating "4 BOOKS ON DARK PSYCHOLOGY" and a thought bubble containing scribbles. The Lemon8 logo and username are at the bottom left.
A book titled "The Psychopath Test" by Jon Ronson is featured against a bookshelf background. Text highlights it as a wild ride, blurring sanity and madness, with mind-blowing interviews, chilling revelations, and thought-provoking questions.
A book titled "The Sociopath Next Door" by Martha Stout, Ph.D. is displayed against a bookshelf background. Text describes it as eye-opening, explaining those without conscience, offering practical advice, and making the reader more aware.
Does the name Pavlov ring a bell?
Ever get that chill down your spine when someone seems a little too good to be true? Or wonder what makes people tick, especially when they're making questionable choices? I've always been fascinated by the darker side of human nature - the manipulation, the secrets, the motives we hide.
Meredith Jao

Meredith Jao

7584 likes

I Have Mastered the Everything Shower 🍑🫧🧖‍♀️
As a gym girl, the everything shower transcends mere hygiene—it's a holistic self-care ritual designed to rejuvenate both my body and mind after a long workout. From lymphatic drainage massages to luxurious post-shower masking, each step is crafted to maintain clear, soft skin and luscious hair
Chalie_Baker

Chalie_Baker

1415 likes

A 3D anatomical model of the human heart, partially dissected to reveal its internal chambers and vessels, with a red text overlay asking, "How does the heart work?" The model is set against a blurred background of other anatomical models and notes.
A handwritten notebook page titled "Cardiac Assessment Unit I," outlining the heart's structure, layers, chambers (right atrium, right ventricle, left atrium, left ventricle), and valves (tricuspid, mitral, pulmonary, aortic). An overlay emphasizes learning these basics.
A handwritten notebook page detailing heart circulation, cardiac cycle (systole, diastole), and cardiac output. It includes a diagram of the heart's internal anatomy with blood flow arrows, and an overlay explaining the diagram helps remember blood flow.
How does the heart work?
How Does the Heart Work? ❤️🫀 And How to Remember It Easily! *last picture you can use it to demonstrate draw* The heart is a powerful pump with 4 chambers and 3 main valves that help keep your blood moving! Here’s how it works: 1. 🛑 4 Chambers: • Right Atrium: Receives deoxygenated blood fr
Asuka

Asuka

199 likes

A yellow alarm clock showing 9:02 AM sits on a table in a dimly lit room with warm yellow and pink lighting. Overlay text reads: "WAKING UP AT 5AM IS 100% POINTLESS."
A yellow alarm clock showing 9:03 AM is on a table. Overlay text lists "good reasons to wake up at 5am," including having time for routine, working out, or genuine excitement for the day.
A yellow alarm clock is partially visible on a table. Overlay text lists "bad reasons to wake up at 5am," such as social pressure or guilt, and advises against letting trends dictate routines.
why waking up at 5am is POINTLESS!!
waking up at the crack of dawn isn’t for everyone!! trends on social media and pressure to be “that girl” can so easily drive us to make choices that aren’t ✨genuinely✨ aligned with what’s right for us! do you wake up early because you’re excited to start your day and get things done, because y
carley ◡̈

carley ◡̈

5037 likes

Why Your Body Goals Shouldn’t Be Based on Theirs🚩
On this side of social media, we keep it 💯 I went back and forth about writing this, but as someone who has worked in the fitness industry for years, it amazes me—and honestly saddens me—to see the lengths some people go to for likes, views, and money. I’ve seen it firsthand: influencers lying a
Sky | CPT

Sky | CPT

393 likes

LET'S TALK SELF CARE🫧🍵🧚‍♀️
Self care is something I have carefully implemented throughout this year and have really prioritized. This doesn't always mean face masks and bubble baths (although some of that does go a long way for me!) There are so many forms of self care. Here are some of my favorites (come back to see p
BROOKE RAYMOND

BROOKE RAYMOND

1440 likes

A text exchange shows the husband's hurt over his family's treatment of his wife, with a family member suggesting the wife tries too hard and needs to understand people are busy. The user notes this is her husband and his mom.
A text from a family member accuses the wife of disrespect and being 'butthurt' for not getting constant replies, while criticizing the husband for taking her side without knowing the full story.
Text messages show the user checking on her husband's sister, who then responds angrily, accusing the user of acting like a child, having opinions, and not respecting boundaries.
Does anyone else have horrible in-laws?
My in-laws treat me like crap. The 19 year old and I have been close for five years and all a sudden she is too busy now. And says she does not have to explain anything to me. She has always messaged me for advice and help and just to talk. So when I message her to check on her she will leave me
Aj Mills

Aj Mills

1138 likes

A person with curly hair, wearing a beige sweater and scarf, stands in a snowy forest. Text asks "How long does it take to MANIFEST? Swipe" with a yellow arrow. The bottom includes "lemon8 @alwaysrollpretty."
A serene winter forest scene with snow-covered trees and sunlight. Text states, "Manifestation is Instant. The moment you believe you are already worthy and feel the way your dream would make you feel, you've manifested." "lemon8 @alwaysrollpretty" is at the bottom.
A person from the waist down, wearing a light sweater, dark pants, and brown boots, stands in a snowy forest. Text asks, "Why You're Waiting for Reality to Change?" and explains manifestation starts inside, not outside. "lemon8 @alwaysrollpretty" is at the bottom.
How Long Does It Take To Manifest?
Have you ever caught yourself asking, "Why is my dream taking so long?" I used to think the same thing. I’d wonder if I was doing something wrong, if the universe forgot about me, or if I just wasn’t "meant" to have what I wanted. But then I learned something that changed
Roll Pretty

Roll Pretty

56 likes

A phone screen showcasing iOS 18 features, specifically app icon customization. It displays options for icon size (Small/Large) and color modes (Automatic, Dark, Light, Tinted) with a color slider, alongside app icons like YouTube and Pinterest.
A phone screen demonstrating the 'Hide apps' feature in iOS 18. A pop-up asks to 'Require Passcode for 'Hearty'?' with options to 'Require Passcode' or 'Hide and Require Passcode' for individual apps.
A phone screen illustrating the 'Hide Apps' feature. App icons are categorized, and a large circle highlights an empty 'Hidden' folder area, indicating where hidden applications would be stored.
iOS 18! Let’s talk about it!
Every time there’s a new iOS, it does something to my little heart, I start planning in my head how I’m going to use new features to help me not only become more productive at my job or tasks, but also become a better me. I’ll be adding how I plan to use these features at work and or better myself.
Byaombe •••

Byaombe •••

2199 likes

Why the Carolina Balloon Festival is a Must-See!!
I have been living here for over 15 years and absolutely no one told me about the ANNUAL Hot air balloon festival just 45 mins outside of Charlotte, NC. It’s a weekend event featuring hundreds of Hot air balloons, live music, food, fun for kids, marketplace for shopping and a wine & beer garden
Femme Rebelle

Femme Rebelle

532 likes

A collage of four soft watercolor illustrations depicting cozy home scenes, including interiors with furniture and windows, and an exterior with a front door. A central circle overlays the images, featuring the text "WHY HOMEMAKING MATTERS and how to do it well."
Why Homemaking Matters…
Your first day as a full-time homemaker arrives. And you can see your future stretching out before you. You’ll sleep until the sunshine streams into your bedroom, make waffles for everyone, and have one of those Martha Stewart linen closets with labels. And then reality sets in. You’re tired. Yo
At Home with Woodview Cottage

At Home with Woodview Cottage

932 likes

A flat lay image showing a laptop, scattered academic papers, notebooks, and a water bottle on a table, with the overlay text 'Why Does Your Essay Always Hover Around the Passing Line'.
An open book with text, a pen, and a phone, featuring overlay text discussing '1 Language Expression Habits' (avoiding first-person) and '2 Active vs. Passive Voice' (balancing both for formality).
A desk setup with a laptop, papers, a drink, and a tablet, displaying overlay text about '3 Supporting the Argument Process' (explaining opinion derivation) and '4 Citation Standards' (adhering to formatting and using authoritative sources).
Why Does Your Essay Always Around the Pass line
Sometimes, despite following various templates and assignment requirements carefully, the feedback from professors always results in low scores. Watching those high-scoring classmates, it seems their essays are different, but it’s hard to pinpoint why. This is a common issue for many Asian internat
KnoweeAI

KnoweeAI

24 likes

The book cover for "Carved from the Heart" by McKenna Cross, featuring a carved pumpkin wearing a witch's hat. The image includes the text "He's sweet as pie" and small pumpkin decorations, with the Lemon8 handle @mean.caroline.
The book cover for "Carved from the Heart" by McKenna Cross, alongside bullet points describing the book's themes: codependency issues, a girlfailure FMC, a golden retriever boyfriend who is literally a pumpkin, a witch FMC, and unrealistic SAT score expectations.
A graphic displaying reading statistics for "Carved from the Heart" by McKenna Cross, including 78 pages read, 1h 17m total reading time, 60.3 pages/h reading speed, 78 most pages read in a day, and 77 most minutes read in a day.
Carved from the Heart, McKenna Cross
GoodReads Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️ My Rating: 3.5 ⭐️ Spice: 🔥🔥🔥🔥 On Kindle Unlimited?: Yes Kindle E-book: $2.99 Length: 78 pages Candace Callilou is 17, a witch, and has just failed her Magical Creatures Against Earthly Tyranny (MCAET) exam. Her mother, noticing her distress, decides the bes
Maeve Caroline

Maeve Caroline

10 likes

Top 10 Vision Supplements on Amazon & Why ✨️
#Lemon8Diary #lemon8diarychallenge Hi, lemon drops! I want to speak a little about personal health tips that have helped me thrive. I hope you find some benefit in my new supplements series! The Top 10 Vision Supplements on Amazon in 2024 Vision health is something I've come to greatl
Lifestyle Babe

Lifestyle Babe

10 likes

A close-up of a woman's face showing makeup separating and creasing under her eye and around her nose, with a white arrow pointing to the under-eye area. The text asks, 'HELP WHY DOES MY MAKEUP DO THIS?!?!'
A close-up of a woman's mouth and chin area, where makeup appears to be settling into fine lines around her lips. The text overlay reads, 'This'.
A close-up of a woman's eye and cheek, showing makeup creasing under the eye and on the cheek. The text 'THIIIIIISSSS' with angry emojis expresses frustration.
HELP WHY DOES MY MAKEUP DO THIS?!?! 🫶
VULNERABLE POST: please be nice! HELP!! So I’m 33. I know I don’t have skin like I used to in my 20s. But I try everything. I have a good skin care routine. I hydrate I wear SPF I use retinol hyaluronic acid all sorts of moisturizers. I let it soak and sometimes I don’t, but my make up always see
Shelby Sky 🌌✨

Shelby Sky 🌌✨

723 likes

A scenic sunset over a body of water with mountains and rocky shorelines, featuring the text overlay "A Message from God...." in white script. The Lemon8 logo and username are visible at the bottom left.
A blurred sunset ocean background with a decorative text box containing an introductory message about repentance and turning away from sin. A "NEXT" button is at the bottom right, and the Lemon8 logo is at the bottom left.
A blurred sunset ocean background with a decorative text box explaining sin, transgression, and iniquity, using an example of lust and cheating. A "NEXT" button is at the bottom right, and the Lemon8 logo is at the bottom left.
LET THOSE WHO HAVE EARS, HEAR 👂🏽
God has been putting this on my heart heavy since October 23’ and every so often he’ll put it in my heart to tell everyone to repent. I know every generation has mentioned the end of times. But if you look around we get closer and closer with each year that passes. This is not for fear mongering pu
Bread Of Life

Bread Of Life

162 likes

What is the 5-second rule and why does it work? ⏱️
The 5-second rule, popularized by Mel Robbins, is a productivity strategy that encourages immediate action. When you have an impulse to do something, you count down from five and take action before hesitation and self-doubt set in. It helps overcome procrastination, builds momentum, engages the dec
teal.days

teal.days

201 likes

A tablet displays Philippians 4 from the ESV Bible, with handwritten notes highlighting verses about peace, prayer, and positive thoughts. The image is titled 'My favorite Bible Verses + why'.
A text graphic presents Proverbs 3:5-6, emphasizing trusting in the Lord and submitting to him for guidance, described as a favorite verse and words to live by.
A text graphic features 2 Timothy 4:17, stating 'But the Lord stood with me and gave me strength,' with an explanation about God's presence during hardships.
FAVORITE BIBLE VERSES + WHY 🌸
These are the verses that have become my favorite over the years and I have strived to memorize!! #christian #bibleverses #bible
Reece

Reece

24 likes

A laptop screen displays various app icons, with the Podcasts app highlighted. An overlay reads "CHRISTIAN PODCASTS you haven't heard of, but are worth the listen," suggesting a list of recommended podcasts.
A laptop screen shows the Apple Podcasts interface for "Truth Talks with Tara," featuring episode titles and descriptions. An overlay states "faith-based discussions," indicating the podcast's theme.
A laptop screen displays the Apple Podcasts page for "Christ With Coffee On Ice," showing its rating and episode list. An overlay reads "casual Christian chat," describing the podcast's style.
i feel like i rarely see anyone mention these
DROP YOUR FAVORITE PODCASTS BELOW! truth talks with tara: a refreshing podcast where faith intersects with everyday life, offering insightful perspectives on navigating challenges through a Christian lense. Christ with coffee on ice: an intriguing podcast blending faith and humor, exploring
E D E N ◡̈

E D E N ◡̈

282 likes

Single does not have to mean lonely!
Nobody talks about this. Nobody talks about what happens after you finally heal from a traumatizing relationship. When you've taken the time to focus on yourself and are ready to step back into the dating world, it feels nearly impossible to find someone because you recognize the red flags in e
Gemma7

Gemma7

69 likes

✨A REMINDER FOR YOUR HEART✨
Psalm 23: “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want…” 🙏🏼 A powerful reminder that God provides, protects, and leads. Even in the valleys, He is near. Even in uncertainty, He is guiding. Matthew 20: “The last will be first, and the first last.” ⚖️ God’s kingdom doesn’t work like the world’s. G
Alexis Rude

Alexis Rude

267 likes

A woman in a white crop top and jeans poses by a pool at night, with text overlay questioning why there are so many toxic haters on Lemon8.
A screenshot of a comment from 'Kat' stating, 'not AI just a lot of facial surgeries and botox' with a laughing emoji.
A screenshot of a comment from 'Annie Tan' stating, 'The makeup isn't even good' with a crying emoji.
Why I stopped posting on Lemon8.
Some of the comments I receive. Isn’t lemon8 a place where we can express ourselves, show different makeup styles, and be honest? I get attacked for occasionally wearing blue contacts and makeup. So what? Can’t we all dress up some time? I get attacked because I’ve had a nose job and some lip fille
Sofia

Sofia

147 likes

A close-up of dark, shiny hair that appears oily, with the question "Why does my hair get oily after 1 day ?" overlaid in white text. The Lemon8 logo and username @duskhazex are visible in the bottom left corner.
Why does my hair get oily after 1 day?
My hair get oily when I don't shower for a day, I used products that didn't include oil to help but didn't help. The only time when I didn't have oily hair after 24 hours was when I swam alot everyday, its also the reason why I can't have long hair it noticeable my oily hair. Ho
Melinda⭐️

Melinda⭐️

311 likes

Does reading your bible seem like a chore?
What are things that you do to not make spending time in God’s word like a chore or a to do list? here’s some of mine …. • I either set the tone right by playing worship music or just praying/talking to him before getting into my word and letting him know what’s been going on or just asking him
yara elena

yara elena

82 likes

Why Does My Baby Fight Sleep? Tips to Help!
Does your baby resist bedtime like it’s their full-time job? You’re not alone! Many babies fight sleep, but there are ways to help them settle down and get the rest they need. From creating a consistent bedtime routine to adjusting nap schedules and using soothing techniques, these tips can make a
Life With Eileen

Life With Eileen

61 likes

Does anyone do this with their digital planner?
This year I’ve taken my journal game to a whole new level! I am using a digital planner as a journal and let me tell you babes… I AM LOVING IT! Here is a quick breakdown of how I use it like a journal. Meaning I complete each page/section at the END of the day. It has worked wonders to: ✅ i
Kels

Kels

102 likes

Why does it cost so much to donate hair??
Trying to donate 12 inches but I'm being charged $20-40 to even accept the donation, even without a real haircut involved! Does anyone know where I can donate hair for free? I have to cut and ship the hair myself (I've never donated it before). #AskLemon8 #hairdonations
Belle🌸

Belle🌸

1300 likes

✨Why you should read the 4 agreements✨
NO SPOILERS. If you haven’t read this book start reading! If you aren’t easily convinced let me convince you like the true Virgo I am. 1. Im finna be a different person after this book. Don Ruiz knows what he’s talking about. He is sharing knowledge from his culture. The Toltec. They were know in
Faith🪴

Faith🪴

473 likes

A hand with long, decorated nails holds a camera, with the text overlay 'MY FAVORITE BLACK Girl YOUTUBERS' and the Lemon8 logo.
A mobile screen displays YouTube channels 'IAM ASIA' and 'Renesbeauties', showing their subscriber counts and video titles like 'THE INTERVIEW' and 'STORYTIME: HE STOOD ME UP...'.
A mobile screen displays YouTube channels 'Asiya Alore' and 'Christina Clark', showing their subscriber counts and video titles like 'TRENDS WE NEED TO LEAVE' and 'THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE...'.
My favorite Black Girl Youtubers and Why I watch
My top channels that I watched were that I realized I wasn't subscribed to some of them, which is crazy because I watched their videos, so I made sure to hit that subscribe button before posting😭😭 Did You See Any Youtubers you watch up here? IAmAsia- STORYTIMES, Florida girl like me. She
Asiya Alore

Asiya Alore

81 likes

Why does Riley have male and female emotions?
#insideout #pixar #disney #movies
The Lore Guy

The Lore Guy

31 likes

A close-up photo of a baby with text overlay: "Why I have a shadow work journal" and "To heal my inner child." This image represents the author's inner child, a key motivation for their shadow work.
An open journal with handwritten entries and various decorative stickers, including a bird and cats. Beside it is a vintage-style sticker book titled "The Antiquarian Sticker Book Bibliophile," illustrating the creative aspect of shadow work journaling.
A list of ten shadow work journal prompts, including questions like "What's the biggest lie I tell myself consistently?" and "What are my most toxic traits?" This image provides examples of prompts used for self-reflection.
Why I have a shadow work journal
I’m sure a lot of you have heard of shadow work journaling. To me, it’s where I can dive into the hidden details of myself and just let them out on paper. I started shadow work a couple months ago. I learned a lot about the practice through tiktok. Everyone’s experience is different and now, I’
Morgan Sullivan

Morgan Sullivan

13 likes

💻does work life balance really exist❓🤔
🍋Lemon8, let’s talk about work life balance❕❕ Is work life balance just a dream, or have you found the secret formula?🤫 ✅share your thoughts, experiences, and tips below on achieving a fulfilling work life balance in the comments! Here are the reasons why work life balance is important:
Lemon8 Career

Lemon8 Career

255 likes

The Perfect Cozy Game Does Exist: Out & About 🍄
The perfect cozy game does exist! A storm has blown through the town of Portobello's you to help this little community get back to on its feet. Like I said it all is in the details for me. Can we talk about The way your character runs we can totally see ourselves doing that in real life. As I
Bea | Cozy Games & Lifestyle

Bea | Cozy Games & Lifestyle

17 likes

See more