Is it NG to continue slurping? How to decide the timing to finish your child's lessons with the "best sense of accomplishment"
When a child says, "I don't want to go anymore 😫" I want to quit, "" Then let's stop now! "Or conversely," No! Continue! "Both are left with a moyamoya.
The lessons I've been working hard on so far.
If you're going to finish it anyway, why not choose a [good timing] that will end with a smile for both the child and the parent, "I'm glad I did it! ✨"?
This time, we have compiled tips for "how to finish well" based on illustrations.
💡 Benefits of not quitting halfway
If you suddenly quit at the moment when the child dislikes it, it is easy to leave a slightly bitter memory in the child's own heart that "I threw it out on the way..."
As you can see in the illustration,
I'll do my best until the intermediate class is over! 🏊♂️
"Until I take the yellow belt" I will do it! 🥋
In this way, it is recommended that parents and children decide a clear "goal line" in advance and finish it after finishing it.
🧠 ends in a good place, a sense of accomplishment remains in the brain!
By clearing the set goal firmly and finishing it, the child can feel a great sense of accomplishment that "I did it to the point I decided!."
This is not just a "stop," it is engraved in the heart as a wonderful "success experience" for children. This sense of accomplishment leads to great confidence when trying new things next.
✅, let's talk about "timing to stop" with your child
If you say "I want to stop!," first accept that feeling,
"Shall we do it when the next promotion test ends?"
"Why don't we aim for the goal together until the end of this exciting class?"
Please discuss which timing to use.
It would be wonderful if we could create an environment where children themselves can convince themselves and decide to graduate by doing so far, rather than forcing them to continue because it is a waste for adults.
"When my family stopped learning, I was worried...!" "This decision seems to be refreshing for each other!" If you say, please look back at Like · Save 🌱
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私も子どもの習い事のやめどきをどう決めたらいいか悩んだ経験があります。実際に体験して感じたのは、突然「今日はやめよう」と決めるのではなく、明確なゴールを設定してそこまで一緒に頑張ることが重要だということです。 例えば、スイミングなら「中級クラスが終わるまで」、空手なら「黄帯をとるまで」といった区切りを最初に話し合っておくと、子どもも途中で投げ出してしまったという苦い思いを抱くことなく、達成感を得られます。 私の子どもは習い事をやめるときに「最後の進級テストまで頑張る」と決めてから、自分でも納得して取り組む姿勢が見られました。達成感を味わったことで、自信となり、その後に始めた新しいことにも前向きにチャレンジできています。 また、無理に続けさせるのではなく、「もうやめたい」という気持ちをまず受け止めることが大切だと感じました。子どもとしっかり話し合って、次にどのタイミングでやめるかを決めることで、親子とも気持ちがスッキリします。 「途中でやめた」ではなく「きりのいいところでやめた」という成功体験を積ませることが、子どもの自信を育て、次の成長につながる最高の終わり方だと思います。習い事のやめどきに悩んでいる方には、ぜひこの方法を試してみてほしいです。
